My wife just had a baby (12-15) So I stayed home and took care of our other 4 kids plus we have a 10yr. neice that lives with us.(so we now have 6 kids and 3 dogs) She was gone only 2 days and I though I was going to go crazy! Between the dish,laundry,cooking, kids yelling, the baby cring, dogs barking, walking the dogs,phone ringing, general house cleaning and grocery shopping. I never realized how hard you ladies have it. When I went the bed at night I was so tired I though I was going to die and it don't stop there, in the middle of the night all I hear is Daddy I want drink or daddy I'm scared. I never knew our kids even got up at night. I now have a new respect for all women with children. I do not know how you do it every day.
2007-01-11 03:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think I would take a long day at work than to go though that again!!!!!!! I really thought the kids were going to kill me before my wife got home.
But like I said I now have a new respect for you women.
2007-01-11 04:49:44 · update #1
The answer is another 4 letter word........LOVE
2007-01-11 03:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that I wish that every man can experience what you did.
Alot of men don't realize how hard it is to be in our shoes, let alone they complain because we're always tired at night, especially to have sex.
Now you have given a perfect example of why women are usually always tired after the day some what ends, and why men should learn to help around the home a little bit more often.
2007-01-11 03:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by !?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very tough. Women aren't just born knowing how to manage it. The whole house chores and cooking and kids and the endless crying and uo all night thing is a job in its own right and with a job you are constantly learning how to juggle things to be more productive. It is truly a life changing thing and a whole new attitude towards alot of things. Just think of all of us women whom work full time and come home to our second job which is motherhood. Thanks for your effort with the children your wife is truly blessed. Have a great time with it enjoy it while you can I have one that is 19 now and it seems like yesterday I was changing his diapers. Now He is going into the Marines and I wonder where did my baby go.God bless.
2007-01-11 03:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. Personally, I think women are much better suited to it. I don't know how my wife can handle it either. At times, I feel like tossing the kids out of the house I get so mad and frustrated. I get everything done, but some of the thoughts going through my head are scary.
2007-01-11 03:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy being a Mommie,but I wouldn't change it for the world.I have 3 children and 3 dogs,as well as a husband calling my name every 5 min.It can be rough,but you get use to it after a while.
2007-01-11 05:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tonya W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll Thank You very much. Now the secret is to remember it when you come home and your wife is dressed nicely, with a good meal and the kids are all playing. Dont forget it!!!
2007-01-11 04:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you thank you thank you you have no idea how great this makes me feel i have told my husband i would gladly trade places with him for a week so he would know how much i go through but he seems to think its easy to take care of our 3 kids 2 of them are 2 year old twins and our huge german shepard.....thanks again and i have no idea how i do it sometimes i just burst in to tears for no other reason than having the twins dump out a huge box of toys that minutes ago was picked up, i have a lot of grey hair too which i didn't have before the twins ...thanks again for making my day......
2007-01-11 03:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by auntie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hats off to you !!You are finally learning to appreciate the woman in your life and what all she does during the day . you see some of us dont sit on our keester and eat bon bons . My ex always used to ask me what i did all day . so I took a day off and he found out real quick . he was so tired he almost passed out . but anyway always appreciate your wife . If you had to pay her a salary you could not afford it . She does alot . good luck to you all.
2007-01-11 03:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made it that way. He gave women special traits that allows her to go through a hell for her family.
Now, for the love of Jesus, can you please get snipped or wear a condom.
2007-01-11 05:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is the real world about mothers staying home
2007-01-11 03:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋