ok, my best friend came to visit me over christmas break and she got back with her ex, when they got back they prsented me to his cousin. i AM not attracted to him at all, but they told me that he is to me. i dont tihnk he is cause he told me he doesnt have itme for a gf and also that he likes being single. his cousin tells me the contrary. here's the thing, i miss haivng a bf, i honestly do, it's been one year since i had a true bf, i very much miss it. the question is if the cousin is really attracted to me even tho i'm not to him, should i go out with him? maybe i can force myself to be attracted to him, he is a very nice person i like him but jus tnot like that...i just miss that special feeling you know...should i go for it maybe i might like him in that way?
2007-01-11 03:34:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You deserve to experience that special connection with someone. And it show flow easily. If that were me i would stay single and wait for that special one. I know it has been awhile, but to me it would be worth the wait.
2007-01-11 03:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would be best to start off this relationship simply as friends. I am of the mind that every one of us on this crazy planet deserves true love and happiness. If you were to "force" yourself to be attracted to this person, you would be robbing yourself of a great deal.
Life goes by so quickly. I know a year without a boyfriend probably feels like an eternity at this point, however, in the big picture of life, a year is a tiny drop in the bucket. Be selective and only commit yourself to a serious relationship when you know you've met Mr. Right! You deserve it!
2007-01-11 12:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with someone just because you feel you should. You're only deceiving yourself and it may be hurtful to the other person. It may seem awful now, but if you wait i'm sure you'll meet a great guy who will make you feel wonderful, which you'll only get from someone you truly are attracted to!
2007-01-11 11:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hippycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says that he is not then he is not,i think that the person who is telling u that he is attracted to you just wants to push him to have a gf,if a guy likes u he wont tell u that he doesnt have time for a gf,and if ur not attracted to him its better to not go out with him,u might end up liking him and he might hurt u,and besides that you could use ur time finding someone u actually like
2007-01-11 11:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by e_s_p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force attraction on someone.
You may want to move this question to the relationships category. This works best for culture and Society querries.
2007-01-11 11:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mz Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother,if the spark isn't there,there is nothing you can do to force it.It would be unfair to date him just so you have a boyfriend.Imagine trying to kiss someone you have no feelings for? Yuk! Don't go there.
2007-01-11 11:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Caroline. Don't bother. You would not only be playing with his feelings, but you will be disrespecting yourself.
2007-01-11 11:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. More fish in the sea.
2007-01-11 11:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Gummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋