is rape role playing a bad or sick thing? ???
2007-01-11 03:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Ruby ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No who is anyone to judge you on what you want to do in your personal life? Live out your fantasy. Its yours no one elses
2007-01-11 03:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by gremlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape doesn't have to be hurtful and hard. It can sometimes happen when the act is relatively gentle. On the other hand, role playing can be extreme simulating a rape where the expectation is to be very punishing and painful.
Also, in role play you already have expectations and do expect things to happen in a certain way. In rape, it is not consentual and it usually takes the raped by surprise.
It comes down to a matter of like or dislike. If you do enjoy role play and you seem to get maximum pleasure out of it, go for it. As long as you know where to draw a line between pretending to be punishing versus actually punishing and painful.
2007-01-11 03:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you're talking about consensual role-playing with your partner and pretending that it's rape.
Believe it or not, this is actually the most common form of role-play requested by women. I have always thought that it appealed to the same part of the human psyche that makes people bungee-jump or ride roller-coasters, because it's doing something horrifying but in a "safe" environment. I believe it's at the heart of most bondage fantasies as well, for the same reason -- you're giving up complete control to your partner and role-playing a violent, dangerous situation but you come out of it safe, uninjured and (one hopes) happy and satisfied.
A couple of suggestions:
1 - Agree in advance on a "safe word" -- that is, presumably you're going to be screaming "no, stop, don't" as part of the role-play, so you need to have a phrase that means "no, this time I REALLY want you to stop." This way if the role-play crosses over from a roller-coaster ride to something that's really terrifying you, there's a way for you to tell your partner that something's gone wrong and you need out NOW.
2 - Work out any trust issues with your partner in advance, particularly as they concern contraception/safe-sex practices. Accidental pregnancy or STDs would be a very unfortunate consequence.
3 - The trickiest part of role-playing like this: you'll want to have some ground rules in advance so that if there's something you REALLY don't want, your partner doesn't go there. At the same time, if you're too specific on what he can and can't do, then it becomes little more than vigorous sex with a little dirty talk. If you're really looking for the feeling of being controlled, of being taken to the brink by someone else as part of your own violent fantasy, then the whole point is for you NOT to know what he's going to do, or when, or with what, or to what part of you.
And finally, if you're seriously interested in pursuing a rape fantasy to some extent, you may also find that bondage is a part of fulfilling it. There is a wealth of information on bondage, including ways of pursuing it safely, available on the Internet and in how-to books available from online resources like http://www.xandria.com.
But to close: while actual rape is a horrifying, humiliating and degrading experience, role-playing it in the context of a consensual relationship is surprisingly common, and can be rewarding for many people. Just be sure to set up a few safeguards in advance and be prepared in case it takes you someplace, emotionally, that you aren't comfortable, and you may find it a thrill.
2007-01-11 03:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! As long as that's all it is, role play. I told my boyfriend that this turned me on, and we do this almost regularly during sex :) give it a try.
The first two chicks are ignorant and obviously know nothing :) it's called playing rape.
2007-01-11 03:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its a fantasy that many women have believe it or not. we don't always want to be in control. it's fun to have someone totally rip control away from us and forcefully use our bodys to give them pleasure the way they want it
2007-01-15 02:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is rape...Thats why is called rape. role play is not rape...
2007-01-11 03:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If that is all it is. If you fantasize about it then there is a problem.
2007-01-11 03:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by helptick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH DUMBASS!!
2007-01-11 03:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by JessieRae. 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋