I like it a little aggressive and really hot. I'm not talking about harsh just a little "dirty" and very vocal. Guys seem to have no problem talking tough but when it comes to the action the only know one way. What's up with that?!
2007-01-11 03:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by Halo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most guys are not secure enough to vocalize their actions and then follow through. If you talk about it do it.Different is sometimes hard to adjust to. I like it "dirty" personally.
2007-01-11 03:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mike R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to find the right man. Don't look for a guy... find a man. Iam 36 and my husband is 29 (we have been married 6 mo's and dated a month before we got marred). When we got together, he had very little experience. This is great, he is very caring and giving. I anitiate what I want and always get it.
In the past I have learned that guys do talk big, but when it comes to action, they are intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants, untill you show them it is ok! Just be the agressor, most guys will find it a real turn on, and you'll have a great experience.
2007-01-11 11:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you talking the talk, then why don't you walk the walk? I keep hearing all this 'little Miss liberated crap', but the little misses don't walk the walk either. If you are soo liberated and tough, then take charge yourself and stop whining. What are guys supposed to do? Some girls say, "no-way- you've got to wait", while others say they want in the a s s while they're girlfriend watches! We aren't mind readers so either say what you want, do what you want, or shut the h e l l up!
2007-01-11 11:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little rough..... nothing beats the sensual soft love making, note i said love making not sex two different things, and both can still get vocal, and raunch things up...all this rough stuff is way over rated, and if you feel unsatisfied with your guys, then start schooling them to how you want them to be...
2007-01-11 11:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys only knows what they believe works. You can guide them, and encourage them. Guys have pretty big egos, and if you tune into that, you can tweak their behavior a bit. I'm not saying change them, but encourage them as to what you like, and what is too much. They will respond, and replicate that if they think it's good. You just have to let them know if it's gone too far, or they will think it is acceptable.
And yes, guys do fumble sometime........you have what we want, on a primal level, we can't just ruthlessly take it, we have to have your permission, and if we do something wrong, we get shut off, dare I say, there is a bit of pressure to preform, and satisfy.
2007-01-11 11:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya woman!!! They all talk a great game...but when it comes time to show you what he's got...all he does is fumble!! They know one way...and that's what floats there boat. They're only there for ONE REASON!!
2007-01-11 11:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU TRY TO BE A LITTLE MORE CLEAR IN WHAT YOU WANT EXACTLY? THE GUYS CAN'T READ YOUR MIND, SO BETTER TELL THEM WHAT YOU LIKE AND WHAT TURNS YOU ON. MOST OF THEM AE PROBABLY AFRAID OF HURTING YOU IF BEING ROUGHER!
2007-01-11 11:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. I say you just need to get them to do what they say they will. be clever.
2007-01-11 11:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know how that goes almost all guys are big talkers seems like that is all they can do
2007-01-11 11:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is funy!!!!
2007-01-11 11:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋