my ex boyfriend found me on myspace.he just wanted to see how iam doing. i am 29 now and i am happily married. i told him i am doing well thank you. he said that he is happy that my dreams came true for me that i became a model. he told me he is married as well and i am too. i said i am happy with my marriage. he said he only got married cause he got her pregnet. i said thats a shame. my husband said it was ok to give him my number so we can be friends. his wife got mad and emailed me curing me out calling me a whore and everything. i emailed her back and said your husband wants to be friends with me and my husband its been years since i saw him. she said real nasty things to me. my husband thinks she behaving like a child. what to you guys think.
2007-01-11 03:16:52 · 16 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Without a doubt her insecurities stem from 'having' to get married. She probably feels anyone could be a threat so try not to take it too personally. Your best bet is to not get involved in any way.
2007-01-11 03:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is behaving insecurely but she's entitled too. Lets face it, your ex didn't contact you to "see how you are". He's clearly not happy in his marriage if he just married her cuz he got her pregnant! Perhaps he wants to be more than friends. Even if that's not the case, if it were me, I'd back off. Do you really want to cause problems in a marriage where a child is involved? Is it worth it? You're happily married and I'm sure you have lots of friends so why do you need to speak to your ex who you obviously haven't spoken to for years.
2007-01-11 11:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know what he said, the part about only marrying her because he knocked her up? That is probably the reason right there. Just put yourself in her shoes. If your husband found an old girlfriend and told her the only reason he married you is because you got pregnant. How would you feel? She may not need to take it out on you, but she needs to take it out on him. I am sure she doesn't look like a model and feels insecure about that too. Just consider her feelings too.
2007-01-11 11:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on. Cant you put yourself in her shoes ? How would you feel if your husband contacted an ex of his. Why cant anyone ever have empathy for others ? True, she went off the deep end with you when it wasn't your fault he called but cant you understand her position just a little ? Do you really think your ex just wants to be friends ?? Dont you think him telling you that he married her just because she got pregnant is screaming that he is unhappy ? Do you really think he just wants another friend ? Men are sick, selfish and always have ulterior motives. I wish more women knew this fact.
2007-01-11 11:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have no idea what is going on in their marriage so you really cannot comment.She should not have called you things but this is a clear indication that eveything is not OK between them.After all he only married her because of the baby(even that statement was a cruel thing to say).This is not the right time for any of you to be in contact despite what your ex wants.
2007-01-11 11:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Niamh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure - but if he only married her because she was pregnant she has every right to be insecure. I don't think it's personal, she's probably like that with every woman who's 'phone number her husband gets.
2007-01-11 11:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup very insecure! and jelous.
come to think of it.....so am I it must be awsome being married to a model. The fact your willing to be friends with your ex is nice too.
Maybe avoid contact with him for a while, probly best for everyone even though its not fair.
Take care
2007-01-11 11:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously insecure about her relationship with her husband, maybe she knows they only got married cause she was pregnant and therfore she feels threatened by his relationship with you, I guess...It is childish but a lot easier to understand when you know why
2007-01-11 11:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got pregnant when (I'm guessing) he didn't want to.
She found a way of controlling him to stay with her and now she's trying to control him even further.
She sounds nutty.
She's more than insecure, she's got problems.
Tell your ex to leave her and get the restraining order ready :)
2007-01-11 11:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think yeah she is.she thinks that you might snacth her husband from her because he was your boyfreind.in a way she's like dont trust her husband . or it might be that she knows some thing about her husband that he might still love you. plz dont mind what i said
2007-01-11 11:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by DayDreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋