I have this same sex friend who I really like as a friend, But I am wanting to take it to another level. A sexual level, but I have never done this before. I am so new and naive about this. But I am also so very very curioous to explore. How do I ask her if she is also interested in me sexually without ruining a friendship or having her freak out on me? I think she might be, but I am not sure.
2007-01-11 03:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by Shanti 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i know that my first experience with the same sex was when we both were looking at a magazine and i said wow that girl is really pretty and she said yeah she is and look over at me i SLOWLY lend into her to give her a kiss i was not sure if she was into girls but she kissed back so guess she was lol you can also talk to her on line that might be easier for some people good luck
2007-01-11 03:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by 1401 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask her what she thinks about other girls and perswade her into like u and jus get closer and closer untill u she really likes u
o jus fool around with her and ask her if she would help u practice kissing and move on from there
2007-01-11 03:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by cmp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool.... if she feels the same she will step to you, however is u r affraid of rejection well then you need to go straight again. not trying toi be harsh, just being out comes with consinquences. i've been out for over15 years, and it comes with rejection . all i'm saying is just keep your cool
2007-01-11 03:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by cynthia j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Liciaboo is right. Slowly and with caution and consideration and with some flirting--to see if she is really interested or not; use your fine instincts and do it with subtlety...
2007-01-11 03:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Susan Jeffries 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it slowly. If she likes you in return you will know it.
2007-01-11 03:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by darkchild39702 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why dont you just throw your leg over your head and eat yourself inside out?
2007-01-11 03:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Montecar3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have to find the right time to ask her. Don't just jump right into it. Take it slow.
2007-01-11 03:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋