we are both girls, I am 17 and she's 20.. I don't know what to do because it's the last thing she'd expect if I'd ever hit on her.. But I feel so strongly about this situation.. Sometimes I just feel like kissing her or hugging her, just being close to her.. Is this weird, if it is, theres nothing I can do about it because I can't control this emotion for her. She is Bisexual but I don't know what she would think if I let her know how I feel.. Please help me..
2007-01-11 03:14:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you may not be bisexual, it could be a sisterly love. its normal to feel attraction like that, but you should take time to figure out if you love her and want to hug her as a sister or if you want to hug and kiss her in a romantic way. make sure your emotions are clear before making any moves. and if you tell her you like her as more than a friend, your relationship may never be the same again.
2007-01-11 03:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by sj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 00:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by manca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal here? It sounds like to me you're making this a MUCH bigger deal than it actually is. Admit it, you're scared and that's OK. Just approach her and be honest with her - tell her what you just wrote down. Worst case scenario, she doesn't feel the same to you, but is probably flattered you like her. Best case scenario, you both are rolling around on a bed naked getting to know each other A LOT better :-) Just Do It and you'll be better off for it. Hope this helps and good luck to you.
2007-01-11 03:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres only one problem you know how you feel but she dose not. I think in a round about way you should shair some of these feelings with her. it would really help. I understand she is a friend but she may feel the same as you and also affred to say something because of that same reason. I would before you lose your chance.
2007-01-11 03:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
feel it out see if u think she feels the same be careful tho she may not and u dont want to lose your friendship
good luck
2007-01-11 03:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, wow - i guess someone is having the same problem that I am... email me and let me know how it works out for you.
2007-01-11 03:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Heather Cook 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, its better then doing nothing and hope that she knows by looking in your eyes.
2007-01-11 03:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by jade s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel, maybe she feels the same way but is afraid to tell you
2007-01-11 03:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you need to tell her if she is bi it might work out
2007-01-11 03:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋