my partner moved away a few weeks ago. we have a daughter of 4 we were together for 7 yrs. we keep in touch but he is finding it really hard being away from us, he rang yesterday crying saying he thinks he is depressed, he feels so low and cant get himself out of it. he cries when he talks to his daughter, so then she gets upset. he hasent rang me today, and i think its because he just dosent want me anymore, he hasnt said this, its just a feeling i have, am i being paranoid or is he just finding it hard to speak to me as he gets upset. i am supposed to be moving to be with him at the end of this year.....
2007-01-11 03:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are being paranoid. He probably hasn't called because he misses you both terribly and it makes him feel worse after he talks to you. Homesickness is a terrible feeling and the only "cure" is to go home or have your loved ones close to you.
Good luck and don't fret.
2007-01-11 03:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honestly, yes, I think you are being paranoid and I totally understand why. Its hard when you have a long distance relationship! When you're together, any little doubts or concerns you might have can be taken away by a simple hug or a smile. When you're apart from each other and you can't see each other, this can't happen and these doubts get worse and worse. You're feeling insecure because you are away from your partner, it must be a very difficult time for both of you. Why don't you call your partner and tell him how much you miss him and love him. have a long chat when your daughter is in bed. Why don't you suggest going to see him for a weekend? You obviously have a very strong and trusting relationship to be going through this.
2007-01-11 03:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i presumed i become paranoid even as my ex-spouse and her daughter continuously appeared to have unusually alternating textual content messages. All 3 individuals interior an identical room and one telephone might want to beep. Then,the others might want to beep. etc etc. i could not help yet imagine it truly is weird and wonderful. I checked her telephone on a textual content message hunt. They were texting one yet another, with options of what to inform me so as that they could sneak out and play with the lads who had dope.Paranoid no,divorced sure.
2016-12-29 03:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are moving with him at the end of this year 2007, you have a really long wait, and I wish you luck.
2007-01-11 03:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just being paranoid. I mean, she calls you right? The best thing to settle this is to communicate. Talk to him about this feeling you're getting and ask him of his.
2007-01-11 04:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are definately b n paranoid and sorry but theres is no need for that he prolly cheated he is just a guy theres millions more that will take care of u and your daughter as a family
2007-01-11 03:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is just probably feeling the effects of depression. If it continues too long he should see a therapist for advice.
2007-01-11 03:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by helptick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question doesnt make alot of sense..you say that your boyfriend calls crying because he misses you and then you think he doesnt want you? Im not sure that makes any kind of sense. So rethink this and figure it out
2007-01-11 03:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe absence will make the heart grow fonder. He needs some time to himself to decide what he wants.
2007-01-11 03:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems his blarting is because he misses you both too much,he may call yet today if not i bet tomorrow but i don't know him unless his name is Bob and he's got a mullet
2007-01-11 03:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by superfurrymuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋