I was diagnosed with anxiety a month and a half ago and it is leading me to believe that I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. He is wonderful and before this all happened (actually 4 days b4 it all happened) I wrote him a list of 101 reasons why I loved him. And I was not pressuring myself to come up with those feelings. They were just there. Anyways, 4 days later I woke up and was not attracted to him and was depressed and angry about my feelings. I want to love him again. He is great and the first 4 months of our relationship was out of this world. He is my first boyfriend who I got along with as friends. I have always been in drama filled relationships and now I am finally in a normal one. I have been on Effexor since this happened and I have my check-up today. I want to know if it just the anxiety that is leading me to believe these thoughts.
I still
-do his laundry
-clean the house
-shovel the driveway
-make dinners
-Have sex
-Trust him
-Am commited and enjoy it
2007-01-11 03:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Effector is a mood stabilizer. It can change your opinion on alto of things. You or stuck on a serious decision that only you can make. What you felt could be 3 things, mania or depression, or just normality. When a person is manic everything is better. You feel like you are on top of the world and so is everything around you. During a very low depression you can really start to appreciate that someone who is close to you. If you are having a good time just watching TV, that could feel like the biggest connection ever. A depressed person will appreciate the Lil things that make them smile so much more it sometimes is taken to another level sometimes confused with love when in reality it could be admiration and could become obsessive. If you were in a plain normal state then you might want to see that list and rethink your answers, try to see what happen what changed? The effector usually lowers the levels of mania and depression to prevent any anxiety. This probably won't not help you make a decision but it should help you understand your feelings and moods.
2007-01-11 03:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds too good to be true, hang in there for a while longer and find out how your feeling then. most likely its the anxiety
2007-01-11 11:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by 1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read some of the questions that you previously posted, and all I can say is that you are really seriously confused, no wonder you have anxiety!! Please continue to get help.
2007-01-11 11:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋