2007-01-11 03:04:25 · 10 answers · asked by izzabella_74 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is in general not me personally.
2007-01-11 04:00:59 · update #1
it never works out, the longer the relationship goes on the more attention u will want, and if he is married he won't have the time for u, and u will become resentful, hurt, and upset, eventually either u will have destroyed his marriage or he will dump u if u give ultimatums. best just to avoid any married man. not to mention the karma that will come back to u, when u get involved with someone who is someone Else's. there will be hurts no matter what way it goes, if he leaves her for u, he may cheat on u just like he did her. we all get paid back for the things we do to hurt others.
2007-01-11 03:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed that when married people start looking outside there marriage is usually when something is wrong and they either don't know how or are too lazy to try and fix it. What this means is the person is trying to runaway from their problems. I've heard of addicts doing the same thing. They try and get a fresh start by moving, but there problems follow. Its called "pulling a geography".
Problems can't be avoided forever. However, people like to blame their partner for everything that's wrong and think if they can get rid of them then life would be great. This kind of thinking removes any responsibility from the person for their problems. What is the old saying, "Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it."
2007-01-11 03:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shivi expensive, i'll understand the discomfort you're dealing with. i think sorry for you, yet think ofyou've got to make up your options and take the decision your self. i imagine you're literally not from US yet yet another u . s . like me. you'll probable no longer get a lot of favorable replies in this communicate board because in our u . s . nonetheless the concept of courting and marriage and also the traditions are diverse from that for the duration of US. right here a guy and a lady stay jointly for total life as husband and spouse no matter if the love is lacking between them. issues are replacing in spite of the undeniable fact that it truly is going to take a lengthy time period and also substantial monetary progression / social attractiveness in the previous we value actual love because the right requirement for any lengthy lasting courting. each human being longs for romance. i personally imagine that, pondering the social attitude of our u . s ., there is no longer some thing incorrect that you'll be able to love a married human being, presented you do not damage every person. in case you 2 extremely love one yet another, i might want to assert you may communicate this consisting of your love and settle on. good success.
2016-12-29 03:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda know how you feel. I relay love my husband, and would never cheat. I got married wondering what would have happened if i got to be Moore than just best friends with my child hood best friend.We grew apart when i was in high school and talk less than 1 time a year.
2007-01-11 03:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by danceteacher5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever has gone through this won't help you make the right decision, that's your call. If you'll married then that's what needs to be honored, your vows.
2007-01-11 03:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you both love and respect your partners and want your relationship work, l think u should stop seeing that person or tell them how much you love your husband or wife, because it's not nice to be a home wrecker, you always think it ill happen to you one day.
2007-01-11 03:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by deebo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't, but I can tell you what to do:
Stay away. No contact.
It happens but it is up to YOU to keep it down. If you can't, distance yourself. It is easy to get caught up in fantasies.
Refocus on your husband. He is reality, imperfect though he is (and so are you).
2007-01-11 03:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is more trouble than a squirt-gun full of super-glue. Maybe it should be called "a carbuncle of love?"
2007-01-11 03:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Michael M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess i look at it rationally and figure that the problems will far outweigh any benefits that could come from pursuing that person.
2007-01-11 03:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to NOT involve yourself with ANYONE WHO IS ALREADY MARRIED!!!
2007-01-11 03:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋