so yea, my boyfriend and brother had sex- i walked in on them (previous question of mine) and to get back at them i had sex with my boyfriends sister. it started out as a joke that we were talking aobut then, we actually went through with it. i dont want to be a lesbian, it was just a little revenge work...now everything is gettin messed up, my boyfriend and me arent as close anymore and my brother has come out of the closet, and so has my boyfriends sister, so i had sex with a lesbian which was just revenge, and then she came out of the closet so now i dont know what to do!! i dont like girls, i dont think my boyfriend likes boys, but we both screwed up! what to do??
2007-01-11 02:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by Pam J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop making up ridiculous questions. Go read a book or do something productive.
2007-01-11 03:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Miss D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should do? Take a step back with your boy friend and admit you were both stupid. Revenge? That sounds hollow. Excuse? Sounds more realistic. You and your BF should sit and have a very open,. honest, and sharing conversation.
First thing to get behind you is the bisexual experience. It's done and over. You both wanted to take a trip on the train but neither wants to live on it. It's human and it's natural. Anyone who says they have never thought about it is a liar.
Second, promise each other, and mean it, that you will talk about such things going forward. Being honest with your feelings and emotions will help prevent feeling needy emotionally. If one of you has a curiosity it won't be a surprise to the other and no one will be tempted to strike out on their own.
Third, Revenge does not have a place in any relationship, ever.
Fourth, have a happy life and enjoy it.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 11:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vengence often backfires. Either forgive and forget or move on and regret. More than likely the situation will never be the same as it was so it either will evolve or terminate ... probably with extreme prejudice.
2007-01-11 11:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a flaming homosexual. Kick his gay a** to the curb. He probably has HIV too.
2007-01-11 11:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by MazdaMatt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm u r weired girl
2007-01-11 11:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by rm4real 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all of u get together 2 smack azzez
2007-01-11 11:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get it again if u like
2007-01-11 11:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a foursome
2007-01-11 11:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋