I'm 30 yrs old. with a 12yr.old and 7yrs old. I should of known way mmore better to get drink & have a one niight stand wit Sum guy whos wants nothing to do with me. I live with MY dad & my kids I don't work should i keep da baby I'm about 7 weeks now!!
2007-01-11 02:56:28 · 31 answers · asked by Paige M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
its not up to the people on yahoo answers whether or not you should bring a life into this world. this is something you need to decide 100% for yourself. none of us are going to have to raise your children. none of us know whats going to be best for you.
we all make mistakes and must live with them, and since this is your child you may do with it what you feel necessary. be it raising it, aborting it, or giving it away. whatever you decide-you know you must choose soon.
good luck
2007-01-11 03:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by cryingtree1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a 42 yr old story made short. I am the product of a drunken, one night stand, in celebration of a divorce finalization. I was put up for adoption. I had a great life in my adoptive home. Got married, was infertile and ended up adopting twin baby boys. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Adoption is a great route these days and the birthmom has soooooo many choices and rights to pick the best parents for their child.
Chose life! Knowing that your child is in a great home with parents who want that child is a whole lot easier for you to deal with then that of the guilt of knowing that you ended a life inside your body.
Choose Life! It's a good thing!
2007-01-11 11:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by NSnoekums 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would keep the baby!
if you were really that concerned about having another you are right. you wouldnt have had a one night stand. and NOT be on any birth controll or worse USE A CONDOM. what if he has a disease that you will now expose to your un-born child!??
your 30 years old with 2 kids who are old enough to know there is no father figure around the house and there wont be again for this new baby. think of your kids before you get too crazy!
i guess its a little too late for that but how do you support your kids now? your dad does it for you!? are you going to live with your dad forever??? maybe you should get a job while you can!
2007-01-11 11:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by AC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Key words in your question are "I'm 30 yrs old." You know right from wrong and you know the consequences of mistakes made. You also are old and hopefully mature enough to figure this out.
No one on here can make that kind of decision for you. If you're mind is made up to get rid of it, then that's what you're going to do.
I would strongly suggest exploring all your options and consider adoption. You are obviosuly in no condition to be bringing another child into your life (living with your parents, no job, and 2 kids already).
Good luck
2007-01-11 11:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know your not going to like to hear this but you need to grow up. Your 30 yrs old living with your dad and two kids and you risked your life on someone you don't even know to get you some. I am against abortion but adoption may be a way to go for you. You need to get a job stop letting your dad support you and your kids. Find your own place there are programs to help get you your own place go to your DHS office and ask them about it. Use protection from now on and dont take risk like that. Take care hope you listen to me and try to grow up some.
2007-01-11 11:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by little lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 30 years old and don't have any better grammar than that? Is it easier to say "da" instead of "the"! I am not for abortion or adoption as a convenience for someone who should have known better, but considering you have made yourself sound like an idiotic twit, do something for God's sake!
2007-01-11 12:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the baby! There are so many out there who can't have a baby for themselves. My best friend is working on adoption papers for her second adoption and would love to get the opportunity to have another child. Don't loose hope with things....it may be hard at first, but if you already have some children and can't take care of anymore, please consider adoption...it is a wonderful institution! Good Luck!
2007-01-11 11:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by jamiasl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think u should keep the baby and file for child support girl u didnt get pregnant on your own you should not have to raise this baby on your own good luck
2007-01-11 13:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Teri Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what is best for you but if you don't want to keep the baby please think about this. A baby has a heart beat at about 5 weeks. The baby should have a chance at a good life, maybe you should give it up for adoption, cuz there are tons of family's out there that want children but can't have them and they would love to adopt a child. Just think about it. There are tons of websites to go look at for adoption. Here is a website for you if you are thinking about adoption. http://courageouschoice.com/?gtse=GOOG&gclid=CKCegK_e2IkCFSGtYAodvCVA0Q
good luck in all you do. If you want to talk or just vent my e-mail addy is cowgirl_from_hell020@yahoo.com.
e-mail me anytime
2007-01-11 11:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by M H 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you cant keep it, put it up for adoption.
Your baby doesnt have to die just because you're stupid.
The government can pay for your health care and delivery, and social services can help you put the child up for adoption, no risk to you or your family.
Just dont kill the baby. There are plenty of people out there who are willing to adopt. Iam one, and I know others. There is no such thing as an unwanted baby.
2007-01-11 11:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋