I love being around woman..i feel that they are nice and sweet..but i am a little shy and can`t approach woman at a bus stop..or at a bar.i feel that they might not like me only use me..as i had in the past.after buying them a drink and sitting down they escape. i feel that i can`t trust them all they are after is a free drink and a free ride..thats what i feel.on the other hand i see many times guys treet woman very very bad and the girl is all over them the more you are bad and agrasive to them the more they want you.can you give me some true advice?thanks
2007-01-11 02:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by Michael69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being shy must be really tough on a guy. There is so much pressure on asking someone out.
Meeting a girl in a bar is pretty difficult. You have to be really aggressive and clever right away for a girl to be interested in you. And, if you do have the high moral values you say you do, I'm not sure that a girl who is willing to go home with you from the bar is long-term relationship material.
Not being able to trust women is a big issue. It may be keeping you from making a true connection with someone.
Why don't you try internet dating? Or asking friends to set you up? There are loads of single girls (myself included) who are looking for a nice, stable guy to go out with.
Nice guys finish first, in my books. And, it's true, the bad boys get a lot of play but the girls who like bad boys are immature and are really into drama.
Hope this helps! Good luck in your search for love.
2007-01-11 03:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jem! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP trying to pick up women at bars. That is all they want is free drinks for the night. Try asking a woman on a date from elsewhere.
2007-01-11 10:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you totally. It is hard being on the shy side. I think it has more to do with trust. you should try to make a few friends first and when you feel confortable then go for a relationship. It will help. good luch...
2007-01-11 11:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the real relationship, don't "pick" women in the bar, because they will escape. if you want a women , and you don't want her to live you, than try being with someone that you know for a long time!
2007-01-11 11:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for women at a Book Store, Super Market, or somewhere outside of the Bar scene! We're here! Not all of us are scum! Just like we know not all men are scum!
2007-01-11 11:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋