pls i wnt to not have a crush on my english teacher. can u give me some advice to forget bout her?
2007-01-11 02:09:16 · 5 answers · asked by Kirej 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
this crush affects my academics much.
2007-01-11 02:10:33 · update #1
okay this started when i recited and she said . "yes HANDSOME MAN" my classmates laughed. and the next day i have a crush on her pls give me advice on how to remove my crush.
2007-01-11 02:19:38 · update #2
*chris b
lol she is not hot she is 38 yrs old.
2007-01-11 02:21:15 · update #3
Well she was trying to pay you a compliment but she should not have said that. I don't think a teacher should be personal like that.
Some people are just charming they cannot help it. But you do have to be careful. Adults have self control and know how to handle "flirtatious" comments. Children don't. Not that you are a child but you are "new" to the world of emotions and libido there. *S*
I think because she told you that you were handsome this kind of "awakened" some feelings inside of you--made you feel good and therefore you are reciprocating those feelings as any normal teenager would towards an attractive woman.
Congratulations, you are starting to become a man and will meet many women and you just have to know that you cannot act on every feeling that you have in response to them.
It's totally normal to like a teacher who thinks you are a nice looking boy/girl. She must think you are really nice, well behaved, and wishes all her students were like you. So don't feel guilty or bad about how you feel, just know you can't act on them and use those feelings to work in a positive way for you and build your confidence and self-esteem.
Teachers shouldn't make personal comments like that to their students, especially teens. I know she meant well but this is what happens! LOL.
2007-01-11 03:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, a crush is just that. You are going to find all different people attractive throughout life, but you need to not let it affect your work. It is normal to have crushes, you just cant act on all of them. Good luck!
2007-01-11 02:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by nellyann1969 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone your own age. Your teacher may be hot, but it would NEVER WORK it is illegal and following up on it will cause too much trouble.
2007-01-11 02:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be bothered about it. It is normal. Just make her as your inspiration while it lasts. Eventually, you will out grow this, don't worry.
2007-01-11 02:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another 'target'...
2007-01-11 04:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by chesneira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋