I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and for the past couple months, I've been having recurring dreams that he cheats on me with men! I don't question his sexuality AT ALL- so this is very strange. Does anyone know what this may mean?!?
2007-01-11 01:58:28 · 4 answers · asked by Lluvia 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
For the record- I have nothing against homosexuals, but I am not in the least bit "turned on" by these dreams. I wouldn't watch gay porn, not because I think it's "disgusting" (it's just sex) but because it doesn't interest me at all. So...I'm def. not having these dreams because I secretly like it. Trust me.
2007-01-11 02:10:39 · update #1
And yes, he knows. He laughs, and then gets pretty offended (lol).
2007-01-11 02:11:26 · update #2
Just a dream luv--tell him about it and the dream will probably go away.
2007-01-11 02:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps that you feel that he is not committing himself completely to you. I think it would be more difficult for a closeted gay man to be emotionally involved with a woman than to be physically involved. For example, men confined with other men will eventually have sexual relations but do not feel that they are gay because they have not committed to a relationship, just sex. You may be sensing some unspoken feeling that he has but then you also could be just having dreams that are not related much to him. If you are having dreams in which you are viewing him having sex with other men and dreaming of the act itself then you may just be intrigued by men having sex the way hetero men watch lesbian porn. Dunno whats up with your situation but I thought I would throw some stuff out there to think about.
2007-01-11 02:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tom W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but that is just too funny! Have you told him about this?
2007-01-11 02:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its no dream ducky,hes my boyfriend too.
2007-01-11 02:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋