I m engage with a boy from last 2 years. He is flirt by nature but I always give him chance.As I feel if my love is true then he will change.But it doesn't work.
I don't know what he wish from.He said that he love me and he is changing for me but he need sometime.He will leave his other grilfrend in some time....
But he is not doing anything like that.That girl is more imp for him.He insult me front of her.He show her that I m at his back.Even yesterday at front of her he says that he love her and I m just his frend.and when tht girl move away He again say me that he love me but need some time......
I meet Mom. She like me as her daughter in law.His bro call me Bhabi(Sister in law)...They all are with me.But that person........
I love him a lot.And can't live without him.
Plz help what should I do?? Should I give him sometime or I should move away... Plzzz help
2007-01-11 01:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Sweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
move on life is to short to be used by him enjoy yourself you will love again good luck.
2007-01-11 01:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of things you ready to start to settle down and take things a serious as possible and your man wants to still be a kid having fun i think you need to ask your self if your truly happy Love can deceive you and make you think that things will change and be different when chances are they will stay the same over all if your happy with what is going on then stay other wise your happiness should be the most important thing
2007-01-11 01:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For his OWN self-image, he needs to have girls around him to pay attention and flatter him. He will be like this his entire life, for he feels inadequate. He stays for just the short time it takes his ego to feel that "boost"---then he moves on. Feelings and needs of the other person will never register on him.
You see clearly what is going on, so act on it.
I've been there, done that, and tortured myself over a narcissist.
Lots of men have this syndrome, unfortunately.
Here's a website that explains it:
2007-01-11 01:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, do you remember being a child and wanting two desserts....or two really expensive toys......or had to decide between buying those expensive boots or paying the rent? Well, your man is having it all.....you have let that boy have his cake, and his ice cream, a lear jet, and a million bucks ,all at one time. He won't ever let go of all that! He's still a child.....You deserve love, real love. Let him go and find you a man worthy of those gifts.
2007-01-11 01:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by bamamom64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change someone.... as much as it hurts- move on before you hurt even worse. No one that really loves you would disrespect you like that. Its gonna hurt- and its gonna suck... but better now than if you were married with kids and he was doing this crap. You already know its wrong... take care of you first because it will be difficult for someone to love you until you love yourself. Wow- i should take my own advice-lol :) Good luck sweetheart
2007-01-11 01:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by skygirlchristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee!! Dump the dud! Look at it as blessing. Do you realllly want to marry someone like that. I know I wouldn't. He is not the only guy in the world and you CAN live without him. Believe me, you will be misable if you stay with him.
GET AWAY!! GET AWAY!! THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT!!!!!
2007-01-11 01:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunni.. you need to kick his butt to the curb! No man, if he loved you, would ever put you second and treat you so horrible. Its time for you to take control and tell him to get out of your life. May-be look into some councilling for why you seem to lack self- esteem. We all need help at some point in our life.
2007-01-11 01:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dana M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but the guy sounds like a world class jerk. You would be much better off without him so try your best to move on.
2007-01-11 01:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes just trying to play games. & if you want something more serious I would suggest you look elswhere because It looks like your not going to get it from him. Some one who really loves you wouldn't put you down that way.
2007-01-11 01:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if anyman loves you and knows your worth he will not treat you like dirt. get the hint "HE DOESN' T LOVE YOU." move on, and you will find someone that will appreciate you more than he does.
2007-01-11 01:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by chic2081 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋