This is my first year being in this school and it is so hard for me to make the friends I want. I never had problems doing that because of my personaility and my features. Can any one give me some advice on how it might be a little easier to make friends? Or should I move back to where I came from?
2007-01-11 01:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by Cherri09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
School is a learning ground. It's time and space to make mistakes, so use it. But it is a temporary illusion, a very ethereal thing in the grand scheme of your life.
Look around, observe, and make your OWN life interesting, and wait for friends to come to you.
Be pleasant and hopeful, and try to enjoy the variety of people around you---watch them and learn from their mistakes. And, remember you may never see any of them again in your life after school is completed, so build what is real in your own character.
2007-01-11 02:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, how old are you anyway? How long have you been in this school? If it's just a short while ago, this is just a transition period I think so don't worry too much. It takes time to make friends you know, so be patient with fate. You said your personality and features enabled you to make friends easily. That's good, you are confident. I am not brashing you but just a note here: be careful about being cocky and haughty instead of just confident!
you have a track record for making friends, don't worry, it just takes time.
To make friends, be interested in them first. Just very basic advice. And smile from your heart. Be spontaneous.
And join a club or something. That's a real easy way to get to know more people in a new school
Lotsa love and luck!
2007-01-11 01:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by heuteistperfectday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of friends are you trying to make? Are you saying you're trying to fit in with the A-list or something? Since you said to make the friends I want. If I was you and I had friends already at that school I would just be thankful for them instead of pushing my way up trying to be something I'm not because sometimes being in the A-list is everything you really need. These things are just going to last through high school. Now if you're just trying to make friends I would join clubs, do after school activities, or make one friends which will lead to more friends.
2007-01-11 02:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get involved in extra-curricular activities. THe more people you interact with the better your chances are to make friends. Put yourself out there! Give it a shot... You just might surprise yourself.
2007-01-11 02:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should be open and friendly during class and befriend people that way u get to understand things and befriend ppl in class at the same time......hope u make alot of friends and lets us on yahoo know when u do.....good luck
2007-01-11 01:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..start talking with the guy next to you...wear a face that is ready to smile...you'll soon find your way in a circle of people you will call friends.
2007-01-11 01:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by CYRILLE102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no set formula...but you can always take them out for coffee or call them over to ur place to watch a dvd,just a matter of breaking the ice...hang in there....
2007-01-11 01:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by lilbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry friend just do 1 thing make impress others by ur speech ,style ,behaviour ,impressions to others . impress other by giving them greeting ,flowers ,chocolates,
2007-01-11 05:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by SELVAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋