I left my partner because he wanted me to have an abortion. Which we planed the pregnancy. He won’t leave me alone, he keeps bugging me to have the abortion what can I do so he can leave me alone?
2007-01-11 01:33:46 · 7 answers · asked by dalia 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Restraining order !
2007-01-11 01:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think it might help if you mentioned getting a "restraining order" from the court? Is there anyone he respects that you could talk to? Probably he wants you (and his pleasure) but does not want responsibility. (would rather take responsibility for murder than for child rearing?) It is clear that you need to express yourself differently, (that is, that what you have been trying to say hasn't communicated your feelings, and your commitment.)
2007-01-11 09:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him. stop taking his calls. he cant talk to you unless you let him. if he bothers you at home or work, get a restraining order. then follow through with it. if he persists, through him in jail. then he'll know you're serious. You just have to be sure that you aren't calling him or bugging him, too. no matter how lonely or confused you are. Being a woman, I know how we can be. good luck!
2007-01-11 09:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by N I K I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him firmly that you're not having the abortion and that's it. Don't discuss it anymore with him. If that's all he talks to you about, then don't talk to him anymore.
2007-01-11 10:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you left him bc of that...you want the baby.and if he doesnt get it threw his head you wiill have to take further action not the way to do it but if it comes down to it! but lets hope it doesnt
2007-01-11 09:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by impala400sb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him resonably
2007-01-11 09:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Joan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his ***
2007-01-11 09:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by mick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋