This man is good friend to me, very supportive and i appriaite him more for not wanting to hurt his family and i know he would'nt be happy with me if he had to make that sacrifice.
2007-01-11 01:10:25 · 28 answers · asked by joy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have answered your own question hun, you got to let him go!
Sometimes us women are more attracted to guys because they are loyal to their families / wives / kids and we wish they where like this with us. Forbidden fruit tastes sweeter hun but it won't last and believe me babe you will get hurt.
Walk away!
Edit:
For those that are slagging this girl off. Please remember that you can't help who you fall for and given that you don't know every bit of the storey don't pass judgement!
2007-01-11 01:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by EMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a married man. You have no right to even assume there could be anything between you. How would you feel if it were the other way around and someone was chasing your husband. I'm sure it would be very painful for you. There are alot of single guys out there. Try meeting some different people. Please stay away from the married guy, or you could ruin a whole family's happiness.
2007-01-11 09:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this do you really want to be with a man who is one cheating on his wife. Two has told you he is never going to leave her and three you will have no future with just a few snatched hours.
YOU are worth far more than that and this man do not let him treat you like that or you will have some very lonely nights waiting by the phone for whenever or whatever.
He has his cake and eating it you are to nice for him and NO please do not fall into the trap of liking him more because he does not want to hurt his family HE ALREADY HAS they just have not found out yet!
2007-01-11 09:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who waited 17 years for a guy who kept saying, "I can't get a divorce until my kids are grown." When the kids were grown, he got a divorce and said, "I want me freedom." She was devastated.
Just remember, a cheater is always a cheater. If you marry him, you will marry a cheater. Ask yourself, is he acting like a boyfriend? Is he there when you need him? Does he take you on dates? If not, dump and get a guy who is a boyfriend.
Don't waste your time, he's told you he won't leave his family, he means it.
A good book to read is He's Not That Into You. Good luck!
2007-01-11 09:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help yourself. Sounds like the man took advantage of your situation. You fell in love but he did not . You love him because he is loyal(?) to his family. If he was so good it would not have gone this far. Step up and be an adult move on he is not the one for you. Chose someone who can treat you well, someone who is not taken. Love is only what you want it to be
2007-01-11 09:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by glasgowgone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cheater never quits an a quiter never wins so just let him go and you will be the winner in the end but if he contiues to come for you you have to talk to his wife an don't make the same mistake twice because life's to short to wait on happiness good luck sweet heart.
2007-01-11 09:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by MIKE 35543 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can!! Think about it what if it was your husband? Get out of that relationship and find a man thats available and NOT married. Seeing a married man is just plain WRONG!!!
2007-01-11 09:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. You've been taken for a ride. Learn your lesson for the next time you get involved with a married man.
Men almost never leave their wives for their flings. They say they will, but they almost never do.
2007-01-11 09:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you are in that situation however, some decisions have already been made for you in this -
FACT:
He isn't going to leave his family-period.
so:
what are you going to do? Try to change him, or his mind.
come of it-there are other fishes in the sea-find one that meets your needs and leave this one alone.
2007-01-11 09:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No married man will leave his wife for a plaything on the side, you need to leave him alone.
2007-01-11 09:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋