Been there, done that.
Married for 27 years. Together for 31. Living in the deep south.
All straight guys like girls for sex - that's part of the orientation. Just because there is a racial difference doesn't change that. That doesn't mean they don't fall in love.
Prior to the 70's and 60's, especially in the south, an open relationship between a white guy and a black girl would be highly socially stigmatized and often life threatening to the guy and possibly the girl. Since these relationships had to be kept extremely secret, it was always viewed as 'using' the woman. I'm sure at times it was, but considering the climate, often it wasn't.
Now days, that's just an ignorant question.
2007-01-11 01:37:08
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answered by Radagast97 6
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Ofcourse, dude they got cheeks for weeks!
Black women often get mad at black guys for marrying outside of their race particularly white women. What black women have to understand is that all of that head shaking, finger waving, talk to the hands bull crap is not what any many is seeking in a woman. Marriage is difficult enough, you don't want to inject extra drama into your marriage for the hell of it and their is nothing wrong with a woman showing her feminine side. I understand that back in the day, black women had to be very strong to deal with all the persecution that blacks faced in society but that was back in the day, it's time to adjust to a new era and I think many sistahs are doing that.
On the flip side of the coin...some of the crap brtohas put good black women through is a damn shame. So no wonder why they sometime fly off the handle. I know many brothas who have told their wives they are going to the supermarket on a Sunday at 11:00 A.M. and didn't show up back at home until Monday morning. That's just all jacked up!!!
2007-01-11 01:10:15
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answered by huckleberry 3
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I'm not a guy either, but I have talked about this with my friend who's visa is running out.... and since same sex marriages are legal in this country I would do that if she had no other option... and then divorce her ofcourse!
I think that most white guys are turned-off by most black girls' dominance and argumentative streaks.
And I think that black guys sometimes also use white girls because they are "easy".
2007-01-11 14:43:23
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answered by bummy cheeks 3
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Well being female, no I wouldn't marry a black girl.
HOWEVER.
If I fell in love with a black man, I would marry him. Love does not care what colour or race you are: if you love that person enough to marry them and spend the rest of your life with them, then you should have the freedom to do so.
2007-01-11 01:10:26
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answered by melfromhell001 3
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i've gotta say this and it may offend a few but i am just gonna be "real".
i really am attracted to white guys but before i got married if i like a guy and he happened to be white and he was good in bed, and good at using his mouth. i would call him up and use him as a booty call. was it right? no , but it sure as hell felt good.
no i would not marry a black WOMAN or any other woman for that matter.
2007-01-11 02:51:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Well I'm married to a white guy and I'm a black woman. So yes they do marry us.
2007-01-11 01:41:45
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answered by Love United 6
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If I fell in love with a person, it wouldn't matter to me what they looked like - black, white, brown, yellow, male, female - love is love in my eyes
2007-01-11 10:29:26
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answered by chownrott 2
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I almost got married to a Latin guy.
2007-01-11 09:33:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I have to be honest -- no.
It's not about race per se, but unfortunately, many (I'm not saying all, but many) black women are too belligerent and argumentative. That's a turn off.
2007-01-11 01:01:22
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answered by karkondrite 4
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Nope, sorry, I'm female.
2007-01-11 01:03:56
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answered by starryeyed 6
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