my brother is 9 and i am 13 and i want to show my parents that we are getting along and want to do something nice for him. we share a room and he is okay most times. what game could i play with him. we both have legos and i think it might be fun to build some of the buildings and play with them. he also has transformers but i don't think there is enough to play war. i was also thinking that maybe i could show him some stuff on tony hawk. i need to show i am sorry and stuff.
2007-01-11 00:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
rumbler thank you for your good answers as always. i can't give you money for your advise but i can make you best answer. i am going to try and be good and then i will say something to my mom next week.
2007-01-11 08:03:37 · update #1
awwwwwww what a sweetie u r! Always remember- sure little brothers r a totaly pain in the butt! But look at it this way: he looks up to u- u r his big brother and he wants to be just like you! He only bugs you because u r his brother and he loves u and looks up to u! Still sometimes u need your privacy- u r 13 after all! and u deserve space of your own! Definetely do anything he is interested in! Video games are a great place to start! Or like u said- if he is into lego's build a city with him if he likes that! Just making lunch on a saturday together would be fun! Anytime u spend with him he will love and remember always!
2007-01-11 05:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the Legos are a good idea, but also find out what he would really like to do. If he is like most little brothers, he'll be happy just because you are playing with him and showiing him attention.
Let me make apoint on your last question too. You said in your final reply that you were going to try to do better, then talk to your parents about grounding instead. I think that is fine, but remember to give it some times, it won't happen in a few days or even probably just a few weeks.
I think it is good that you want to spend some time with your brother
Thanks for all the best answers, that is quite nice of you. I hope I have helped you.
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Keep trying to do your best!
2007-01-11 01:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you've done something wrong and are trying to show your brother and your parents that you're not a bad kid. Trust me, they already know that.
If you're really wanting to be nice to your brother, invite him with hang out with you and your friends. He idolizes you, thinks you're the next best thing to birthday cake. Little brother's feel that way about their older brothers.
One of the nicest things I've seen my oldest son do for his younger brother's was to teach them stuff. It can be anything, how to play a game that you think he'd like, teach him how to ride a bike or skateboard, even help him understand his homework. Just be nice to him and when he starts to do things to annoy you, don't yell just tell you're mom that you need some time away from your brother for a couple hours.
That will show them all how much you love and care about your brother and then you're little brother will never stop thinking you're terrific.
2007-01-11 01:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by sassydontpm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he like to do? ask him if he wants to go shoot some hoops or go fishing. Tony hawk sounds cool too, just don't try to be bossy, kids hate that. i don't have a little brother (even though i really want one), but i play with my neighbor and cousin (both age 9) and we usually like to play uno. also tossing around a football in the backyard is fun too. And if you have army guys and tanks, set up camp and have a pretend war. we used to spend 3 hours just setting up our 2 different camps in the living room, then either forget all about the war part of the game because it was dinner time, or have the war and it would only last, like, 10 seconds. so just have fun, and do something that he likes to do, and if your lucky it might be something that you like to do to. good luck>
2007-01-11 01:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by i totally agree with you!! not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are very few older siblings who are actually trying to connect with their younger siblings. I am the oldest out of 5 girls and have the most troubling time doing things for them because well there's four of them, we don't share interests, and i have no money. But my suggestion is go for the legos, and teach him the wonderful art of duct tape and swordfighting.
2007-01-11 03:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Cayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine that made you sense very solid. our childrens at the same time as youthful fought like cats and canines. Now at 31 and 29 and with each and each and every of the crap we been by those very last 4 years they are very tight. i do not understand for particular what is going on between them. it type of sounds like they are the purely 2 that they're going to pay interest to.
2016-12-02 03:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice sibling. Give him a candy bar. That would be a great expression of love.
2007-01-11 02:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the movies, play basketball or other sports, just be there for him
2007-01-11 03:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww!! your soooo cute! & nice! any of those things are good, just show him you love him and you're sorry. ask him what he wants to do
2007-01-11 07:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋