2007-01-11 00:23:28 · 42 answers · asked by sarahl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends who youre cheating on. if its the local authority who are fleesing you of tax and not delivirening the goods when you go to hospital etc then yes. if its your sick old gran dying of cancer and your steeling her drugs to get **** faced then no. if its stan from the corner shop running a buisness with his wife... no again. if its a filthy lying dirty cheating corporate w@N*er, money grabing faker then .... hey.... ill fix you up myself :)
2007-01-11 13:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by The monkey spanker. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth it and if someone is cheating or tempted to cheat they need to look at the reason why first before doing anything. many cases it is because something has been lost or is lacking in their present relationship and all they are doing is finding it with that other person. So you have a cheat who is content as getting what they want in a combination of both relationships. Answer to find out what is wrong and sort it by making or breaking it before anyone else becomes involved.
2007-01-11 01:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's worth it. (cheating)
I know you'll think this is weird. I'm not tracking you.. But I have a girlfriend Sarah for 4 years, we broke up for a week for something dumb like 3 years ago, can't even remember what it was for. Now I keep getting s*it for it all the time 3 years later. She says I was never as nice this 2nd time back together. Anyway.. I saw that other message and thought maybe you were HER!, then clicked and saw this cheating message. I cheated on my ex-girlfrend, it wasn't worth it. Sarah says she'll never do it. Tonight she was at the bar with her friend I dont trust. Relationships can suck and are stressful, goodluck
2007-01-11 00:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by dredogg024 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is cheating on her husband who also just happens to be a good friend of mine... as my sister says...drink his beer, eat his food and then *uc* his wife... is it worth it...yes! There is the thrill of the secret meeting places, flying in different airlines to the same destination for "business" meetings. The sneaked kisses and hugs and other things at parties at my or his house. Its the thrill that makes the whole thing worth it and this has been going on for just over a year. Maybe someday we will be caught and it will be the end of a wonderful friendship between him and I but I will continue to see her. Come on people try it... by the way we see each other once a week (maybe twice) but when she returns to her husband she says that the sex is good.... does that mean I am bad!! Oh by the way I am a young widower... so no harm on my side!!
2007-01-11 01:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by alanickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it certainly is not. There is never an excuse for cheating. I know first hand how it feels to be cheated on and believe me it is the most hurtful thing you can do to your partner. Don't even consider it unless you are prepared to ruin the lives of the people you are supposed to love and care about. Also don't forget about the guilt that you will have to endure. If you have those feelings leave the relationship and move on. DON"T CHEAT !!
2007-01-11 00:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never worth it. If you want to be with someone other than who you are committed to, then maybe you need to just get out of that relationship & be single. Then you can do what you want.
2007-01-11 00:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, its absolutely not i dont know if someone cheated on you and youre thinking bout getting back at them but 2 wrongs don't make a wright and you would be hurting someone for no reason. if you want someone else break up with the person you're with cheating isn't necessary.. hope ive helped you have a good day..
2007-01-11 01:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by hb2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ppl that cheat are not satisfied with the relationship. If you were happy together, there wouldn't be any urge to cheat. It's better just to break up, be single and mess around with no commitments until your ready to be monogamous again.
2007-01-11 00:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. I cheated once and it showed me there was a whole lot more out there than the 'good' relationship I thought I had! I consequently left that person and have had a great life since.
The downside is the guilt and knowing that you're hurting someone.
2007-01-11 00:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Keira H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've decided to cheat after marrying someone, then you ain't a very good jusge of character. It's not worth it in the least, there is too much heartache involved. Steer well clear.
2007-01-11 00:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chris B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think it is,,,,but who am i to say,,,,I think people that cheat are lacking something in themselves that make them complete as a person,,,,and until they find what it is that they search for in others while committed to someone else,,,,,they will continue to hurt others and themselves,,,,,,people dont just cheat for sex,,,their are many other reasons for cheating,,,,and it i believe is also about what a person is lacking,,,
cheating is a long and lonely road that will lead to nothing,,,,,and many people men and women venture down this road because they feel like they are missing something and not getting what they need,,,,but in all reality,,,,they have what they need,,,,with the one they are with,,,,but are lacking what they need from themselves.....
GOOD QUESTION,,,THANKS FOR LISTENING,,,,,]
DAPHNE
2007-01-11 00:35:08 · answer #11 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋