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2007-01-11 00:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ARRANGE IS WITHOUT LOVE PROBLEMS AND LOVE IS WITHOUT ARRANGED PROBLEMS.
2007-01-13 01:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An arranged marriage is more objective in that it chooses a partner that you have more in common with by your family who knows you well. In time it can be a love marriage!
2007-01-11 09:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by srnandan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange marriage is totally different, i mean you are marrying someone who you don't know at all and might have nothing in common.....in a love marriage you are marrying the one you love and know you could spend the rest of your life with this person.....i perfer a love marriage......what about you?
2007-01-11 09:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See in arranged marriage you never know the person with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life with - his / her past, behaviour, nature and stuff like that. Hell. You put your entire life in the hands of the person whom you have never known - just by meeting him / her once! Can it get any stupid?
If there is real love, not just mere physical bonding - love marriages are as pure and real as love itself - which is next to God.
2007-01-11 09:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by inayat sheliya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged marriage- which has no intimacy or love affair and arranged by the parents.
Love marriage - is which agreed upon by the girl and boy in love.
2007-01-11 08:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by raji t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In arranged marriage you are very much secure & safe even if you get any problems problems will safe guard you and compromise your quarels But incase of love marriage you will not get any moral support from any person you and your spouse should discuss with each other and get over your troubles
2007-01-11 08:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by VIRU 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instead you ask about what is love? What is ultimate of love? That is Sex... Correct. But in some cases chemistry works and the minds get attracted ... Mind you this attraction is not FOREVER! Forever means for ages! The chemistry also works for a limited period. Love should be replaced by Commerce! That will be better.
In love, we see all the things in one line, with our glasses, we argue for that, we feel that everyone will disagree and get ready for that, we get support only from friends, we are actually pushed to love by our friends and environment and we feel we are independent and we LOVE!
What is next? When we can love, how we can take the love to its natural course – these things we forget thinking assuming and fantasizing LOVE.
Arrange marriage – if father is take care for Girls and mother is taking care for Boys – it is best thing. You need not blame yourself all your life, you need not compromise for what you did, you need not regret at a later date, you need not worry about his movements and you need not throw yourself in the jungle all by alone.
In arranged marriage – is like a journey with your family – not alone- Think assume that you have been asked to go to a place – around 1200 km away – by train all alone. How you feel. You love journey and but you have a fear. You act as if you are bold and strong – still you are having mental fear, Same thing with LOVE.
If some one loves at the age of 18 to 22 and get married by 23rd and strat producing children by 24th and you will be with your child for the next 5 years and what you know about husband, where he has gone, when he will return, how he will return, all thee questions will come. So let it be late, let it be by your parents and let it be known to all that you married him through a procedure.
2007-01-11 08:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by subramps 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well in arrange marriage u find ur partner with the help of ur parents which `s very good & safe way but not so safe & in love marriage u find ur partner urself who `s ur loved ones , u both know each other very well.
2007-01-11 08:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange marriage- when u got a girl who can cook well and clean ur home very patient
love marriage- when u got a girl who loves u but cann't cook and clean
2007-01-11 08:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by akbar 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Arrange marriage - is killing yourself NOW...
whille love marriage - is killing yourself LATER...
2007-01-11 08:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by NoName 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋