why is it that some women stop having a lot of sex after they either get into a serious relationship or when they get married? Why is there a lot of sex at the beginning of a relationship and it slowly gets to the point where there is hardly any?
2007-01-11 00:16:31 · 22 answers · asked by Syd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because men decide to show off their true colors after marriage, and we do not find them exciting or a turn-on anymore.
2007-01-11 00:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by ~MIMI~ 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not ALL women do stop having sex...sometimes it's the other way around...marriages shouldn't be based upon sex. If they are then they are going to be doomed from the start. There are several reasons why sex changes during a marriage, the couple grow up and mature, children come along, work, and kids take a toll on the couple and they tire more easily, they get busy with the routine of working, raising kids taking care of the home and don't have "time" to have sex. And since it is STILL an option sometimes they just don't WANT to have sex...and this goes for men as well as women. Everyone is an individual and what is true for one couple isn't going to be true for another. The reason there is a lot of sex at the beginniing of a relationship is because you're trying "win" the other one over, there are no children and lust plays a major part in the beginning of a realtionship. The relationships that last are the ones that can grow and mature with the couple and aren't dependent upon sex alone to keep the relationship going.
2007-01-11 08:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This usually happens because newlywed husbands think they have a right to sex whenever they want it. Their wives try to accommodate them, but after being practically screwed to death in the beginning of marriage, these women gradually lose interest. Sex becomes a chore, rather than an intimate expression of love. A loving husband doesn't require sex from his wife every time he feels the need. He understands that women are human beings, not machines. He learns to make love to his wife less often, which increases the couple's mutual enjoyment.
Selfish husbands do just the opposite. They overdo sex in the beginning, then complain when their wives resist. Not only is it emotionally draining, but it effects a woman's health when her body is being misused. When a wife starts saying she's too tired, or that she has a headache, it means she worn out from the constant sexual activity.
2007-01-11 09:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's got her hooks into you now. She doesn't need to have sex with you. All she's interested in now is how much money you can bring home to her. You best just get use to this.
However, you could talk to her about this issue, she might have something to say about it. She'll more than likely offer to have more sex with you (but while she is saying those words, she's thinking, (oh s hit, guess i'll have to give him some for a couple weeks then cut him off again).
Women are generally evil, selfish, emotionally abusive, conniving bit *ches. That cannot be pleased no matter how hard men try.
2007-01-11 08:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because its always there. Its not just a Saturday night thing anymore, if you see a woman two or three times and you have sex each time you see her, you think if you see her four or five times you will have sex all those time too.
When a relationship is new its at its hottest, as time goes by things do cool down, but it should never go out. Love is more than sex for women and a man who forgets that soon finds himself on the couch. Alone.
2007-01-11 08:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think this is true, i'm a married woman and want to have sex everynight but my husband doesnt show interest anymore. he has other things more important than Sex. working is very more important to him than eating sometimes. When we were still dating we used to have sex all the time, but now i'd be lucky if do it once a week..
2007-01-11 09:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by BouBou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know. I'm lucky in my marriage, we still have sex. Truthfully, not as much as we had before we had our daughter (who is now 2) but we still have sex about 3 times a week... sometimes more. It takes work to keep a relationship alive & even though the job is stressful, you got kids, etc. You REALLY need to keep the flame hot.
2007-01-11 08:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They get bored, try seducing them, make it exciting and pleasurable, they will want sex as much if not more than before marriage. I have to say that after 22 years our sex life a diminished a bit, just getting lazy I guess.
2007-01-11 08:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they are exhausted from doing all the housework and taking care of the children... If men would realize that the hugest turn on to a woman in a marriage is a man that will help out (I mean really help out, not put one dish in the dishwasher) and look at the household tasks as teamwork not "women's work" they would probably be getting busy every night!
2007-01-11 08:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dino 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
why do men stop romancing them and start treating them like it is an obligation after they are married, is a better question. Maybe if men acted the same when they were dating so would women.
2007-01-11 08:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Routine. Things get boring, even sex. And it's OK...the important thing is to have more interests then just sex. A relationship is so many things...sex is certainly not the only thing.
2007-01-11 08:25:07 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋