i got engaged yesterday and i dont k now how to tell my ex that i am because he is still emotionally attached to me
2007-01-10 23:51:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not have to tell him because he does not need to know. That is not of his business anymore. Information about your private life is yours to share with whomever you wish and if you feel uncomfortable sharing that with him then you should not.
Is he an ex-boyfriend or an ex-husband? Either way, "ex" is a prefix indicating a former title or status, which he does not have anymore.
You are concerned about him because he is still emotionally attached to you but you should force yourself to not care about what he may thinks of feel. He could think that any concern from you would be hope for him.
2007-01-14 20:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex so you don't need to tell him anything. If he's still emotionally attached to you then that's his problem, not yours. He's the ex for a reason so he should have come to grips with it by now. Since you are now newly engaged that shows you have moved on with your life. He should do the same without needing any of your input. The worst thing you could do is enter into a relationship worrying about exes emotional stability. It's over! So keep moving on and cut the past baggage that you may be harboring with the ex.
2007-01-11 00:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can not believe you enable it get this a procedures. What you want to undergo in concepts is he's an EX for a reason and also you want to commence remembering that reason. do not imagine the grass is continuously greener. in case you truly are in love with some different person i do not comprehend why you reported sure to a wedding ceremony idea. And your EX has no correct to say he will be your toddler's Daddy. Your toddler already has a daddy! the only your engaged to. i imagine you want to imagine about some issues a million. How would you be feeling in case your ex had no emotions for you 2. Do you've emotions for your modern-day significant different. 3. do you opt for to expose your baby's existence the different way up with a chance that it received't exercising consultation with you ex (lets face it, hardly ever works going decrease back) 4. you're saying you do not opt for to damage your significant different yet you bypass on an open communicate board to ask a question like this, how would he experience if he got here upon out. i imagine that your significant different would probable be more desirable off with out you, so both way (in case you stay with him or not) i'm particular that he will be ok.
2016-10-17 00:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by manca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your responsibility anymore irrelevant of his feelings he is and ex for a reason, if you're married have some respect for your husband and ditch the ex once and for all. Him being attached still is not your problem you've moved on tell him to then leave him to it and get on with your life!
2007-01-10 23:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like maybe you are caring too much about what your ex thinks...If you are in love and happy you really shouldn't be worried about how to tell your ex and how he is going to feel about it..I would say just go on about your business...If he asks, tell him the truth...but i see no need in you making a point to tell him the news..
2007-01-14 22:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Meagan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to tell him anything, he's the ex for a reason. How does your fiance feel about your ex being emotionally attached to you? Is it fair on him?
2007-01-10 23:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it like my ex did, and tell me that you love me, and that we should be together we both deside that we will wait till we get married, then we take a break in the relationship.. then sleep with someone else.. and then when im at bootcamp for the Air Force Join the Navy, get engaged to the guy you slept with and then tell me its my fault you still love me, and then tell me you want to break it off with him to be with me.. but then marry him anyways bc you dont want to get sent to Japan, and call me every other week blaiming me that your with him and instead of me, and then find out he cheated on you and blame that on me and get mad at me bc i slept with your friend after we were broken up .. and in the end.. tell me if you hadnt married him you would be with me, and that if you can ever prove he cheated you would leave him
2007-01-10 23:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI, ex, I wanted you to hear this from me first, so there would be no surprises. Blank and I got engaged yesterday and I hope you will be as happy for us as we are. Good luck to you, you deserve a perfectly wonderful woman and I know you'll find her.
'Bye now.
Hows that?
2007-01-10 23:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice card should do the trick.
To My Ex:
I've got some news that's good for me
But you might be enraged
The thing with my new guy worked out
We just got engaged.
2007-01-10 23:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell him? He IS your EX! Enjoy your engagement.....don't worry about an ex!! He's an EX for a reason.
2007-01-10 23:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋