Okay I been trying to work out why he's always been wanting me in pigtails dispite the fact that I have unusually big and protruding ears.
And also why he's always wanted to cut off my long blonde curly hair which as I have tiny **** is my best asset. Turns out as he admitted to me last night that he's got a fetish for girls was big ears.
Worst thing is cause I'm a bit dizzy with the who thing, I actually let him cut off my hair a month ago. I know I'm not attractive anymore as boys don't even come close to flurting with me now as almost bald with big ears is not a good look. But he's crazy about the way I look now. Am I crazy to have let him do this to my looks? He's just cut my hair again and I know I look ugly and odd to other people and its embarrassing but then again as I said he finds my earness errotic and wants me in big earings now as well.
Confused Girl.
2007-01-10 23:42:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
OK, so, you've got big ears, fact.
Your boyfriend loves them, fact.
Do you think perhaps you only feel ugly because of society's perception of beauty. very few people would admit that they find large protruding ears attractive, but why would you care what everyone else thinks? If you learn to love yourself for who and what you are then you'll gain a lot of confidence & this is generally more attractive than physical beauty.
Although, if you really want to grow your hair back then he shouldn't stop you. you can always tie it up.
2007-01-10 23:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by becbark 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You could have it a Whole Lot Worse. He could be into armpits or stinky feet. He could become excited by a woman wearing Lil' Bo Peep outfits or ask you to wear scuba gear to bed.
If you like/love him, there is nothing wrong with doing something to yourself (non-permanent or disfiguring) that will please him or satisfy his unusual desires.
If you're not comfortable going around in public in big ugly earrings, then buy a pair to wear for him in private. If you want the long hair back, grow it, and pin it back once in a while for his benefit.
If he had come to you and said his fetish was for a woman with small ****, wouldn't you have been pleased that the equipment you've got is the kind he likes?
2007-01-11 07:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as what i read, i guess your bf just don't like that theres a lot of guys looking at you thats why he turns up cutting your hair to embarrass some buys there.. what do you think?
bf must make their gf more sexy to show to others as if they are in the most lovely girl in the campus.. why he is cutting off your hair if that makes you feel uncomfortable talk to him...
and tell him you want to look beautiful for him and you will just show your big cute ear when you both are together alone...
hope i helped.
2007-01-11 07:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by hotchixxxz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should dump him, grow your hair back as it sounds that you really regret cutting it. Then go out and pull a really fit bloke who has normal fetishes... best of luck to you x
2007-01-11 07:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by North London Lady! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahhh, young lobe.
Seriously: He should be into who you are; not making you into who he wants you to be. Kick him to the curb, grow that hair back if it's your thing, and find someone who wants you for you.
2007-01-11 07:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you shouldn't have let him do this. And he shouldn't have insisted on it. It's very wrong.
2007-01-11 07:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU FEEL HE IS WORTH IT ,CONTINUE
WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT---HAIR OR YOUR BOYFRIEND?
THINK ,MAKE A DECISION
2007-01-11 07:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋