Why do my b/f's friends call him whipped for brining me flowers and supporting me at my gymnastics meets?? I don't make him, he just does.
Is he whipped b/c he was a player until he fell for me, and does sweet things for me??
All his friends come to the meet to but he comes up during the score announcements and is there for me.
What is wrong with him being with his friends at the meet unless I get hurt or until the end?
2007-01-10 23:01:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Why is it a bad thing that he, unlike most guys who come, doesn't ask me to please **** him??`
2007-01-10 23:07:33 · update #1
they are very jealous
2007-01-10 23:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one lucky girl, whatever you do ignore his friends. Ofcourse as you can see their mentality is small, and that is why they either dont have a girlifriend or they wont have a girlfriend who is as passionate about her boyfriend.
So they see it as your are controlling him, or maybe its because you took him away from them, or also its because they are jealous because they can't understand or feel full like your man does.
But if it was me, I would somehow confront the friends and see what is wrong with them, wont be arguing and screaming, but would become their friend as well so instead of they influence my man with bad mentality I could open their hearts and mind to ( it is ok) to do these things for a girl.
I am really not sure how else to go around it, but i would not take off my eyes from friends because they know how to change their friends mentality.
I say this from my own experience, I have had friends who were not happy that i was with my boyfriend, so what they did was the kept telling me not to spoil him , always wanted to know whats going on , and always said that I should be following him around maybe he has office romance or lalalal. Basically it built an insecurity in me, and I started seeing that I am changing how i used to be with him because of the influence of my friends.
Therfore I saw how weak i was and i distanced myself from them, because i dont see a reason why my boyfriend should get convicted for crimes he hasnt done.
And now, I give more than I could to him i dont see that as spoiling him or anything, I just express how i feel very openly, rather than trying to play games. And I cant be more happy with the results.
So not all friends help in your benefit.
2007-01-10 23:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Hunnypox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is maturing and his friends aren't. It could also be that he didn't care as much about the other females as he does about you. Lastly maybe the other girls gave it up to quick and he lost interest once he got the goods. There is nothing wrong with him being there for you, his friends are jealous because they don't have a decent girlfriend most likely.
2007-01-11 00:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is deeply in love, he definitely has all the syptoms. He changed his ways, and he is exercising self control (a word foreign to most boys these days). If his friends make fun of him for not asking you to have sex with him, then they are still trapped in the silly world of boyhood, while your boyfriend is quickly becoming a man (def. a man is not harsh, brutal, demanding or intent on "conquest"). You sound like a sensible girl who will not be shaken because of the rude comments of this boy's friends who are no friends at all.
2007-01-11 04:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart- there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with this guy of yours- you hang on really TIGHT to that one because he will make an awesome husband one day! My 16 year old son is the same way with his girlfriend and they tease him all the time too! BUT as my son says- they r just jealous of their relationship because they dont have anyone special in their lives! Hang on tight- he is a keeper!
2007-01-11 05:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be thankfull for having a great bf he obviously cares allof for you the worst thing u can do is say to him dont bother coming go out with ure friends this will hurt him badly. Just accpt him for who he is and what he is ddoing for you stick with this guy as there are not many decent ppl out there :) good lookx
2007-01-10 23:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad thing. His friends are immature and probably jealous. It sounds like you have a good boyrfriend who really cares about you and knows how to show it. Nothing at all wrong with that!
2007-01-10 23:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simply the kind of playful banter shared between guys when one of them becomes obviously attached to a female. It's the same kind of comments that you would expect when a single guy decides to get married. It wouldn't be odd for a guy to get a gag gift of a ball and chain at his bachelor party.
2007-01-10 23:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they r immature.......or jealous that he has a good thing going......maybe they will be men someday and pick up on some of the mature things he does, he must really care for u........good luck, dont worry about his friends there is nothing wrong with him hanging with his buddies at the meet either...hey maybe he would rather be with a girl........lol
2007-01-11 03:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by snowangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad or wrong, they're just envious because they had him all to themselves all of the time when he was a "player", until he fell for you. When he's with you, he's not with them. If it doesn't bother your boyfriend, don't let it bother you. He's just doing it because he wants to, not because you're making him, which is why he wants to!
2007-01-10 23:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Venus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all he wants to do is spend HIS time with YOU. Savor it, darlin and support him. Just make sure you let him know that you see what he is doing...
2007-01-10 23:08:04 · answer #11 · answered by Collared 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋