Although da answers i had were helpful i don't think people really got what i meant. I'll give more of a description. Me and him aren't frends but we aren't enemys. When I said i always see him looking at me. It's because he been placed in front of the board and when i look at the board he's staring directly at me no doubt about it. Either that or if i'm talking to my friend and hes near he always looks at me not both of us just me. If someone accuses him of being gay he makes a sarcastic comment then goes and try to kiss one of his friends. Although that might seem jokey he dives in on the oppurtunity and trys really hard to kiss. It is a possibility dat he was dared but he wouldn't do a dare like that. I know because i heard one of his friends say this dare before and he refused to do it. So y wud he hug me. I don't hope hes gay either because i'm not gay. Any ideas on how i can find out if he is gay without directly asking him. I am not gay i just want to know y he did this to me.
2007-01-10 22:40:59 · 13 answers · asked by slawter 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if you are not gay and dont want him to like you other then a friend then let it go!! some people are touchy feely people some arent! if it offended you then say so if not be glad he hugged you and didnt slap you!! (which is more like it these days). even boys can hug as friends!! only the uncomfortable will make nasty comments!!! i hope this helps :-)
2007-01-10 22:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you think maybe he is just craving some male affection. Why would it be important to find out if he is gay. I am sure he does not go around asking people 'Do you think that if you are heterosexual?' What you are saying is that this would only be a problem if he said that he was gay, if he said he was straight you would not even have asked this question. Maybe the problem is your inability to receive male affection.
2007-01-11 14:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Future boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reading too much into it. Perhaps he'd like to be friends (not gay) and thought to jump start your friendship.
Even if he does turn out to be gay, doesn't mean he's hitting on you.
Truth is - if you want to know, you'll just have to ask him.
Or you could just let him know that you didn't like being hugged, the way he did, and leave it at that.
2007-01-11 08:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this boy may be gay then agian he may not..just because he hugged you doesntmean he fancies you..he may feel that you havent caused him any grief or questioned his sexuality and he feels that you could be someone to trust..if you wnat to know if he is gay or not then youll just have to ask him..but make sure he feels that if he does tell you he can trust you not to tell the world if he doesn twnat anyone else to know...if he is gay and your not just tell him you dont mind what he is as long as if you become friends that is all there will be a friendship..
i for one one would sooner have a gay friend i could trust than a str8 guy who lets me down at every turn
2007-01-11 13:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by rockinrobin437 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep asking this question when in the end, none of us can give you real proof that he's gay or not. All you can do is seriously ask him for yourself like I mentioned before.
By the way, I see guys who act very gayish all the time yet they claim they're straight, so he might not give you a real answer either.
I put it this way, if a guy does gayish stuff like you say he;s doing, they're definilty either gay, bisexual, sexually confused, or sexually fustrated that people think he's gay when he's not.
2007-01-11 06:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off - learn to commincate via written language before you post again. Your questions are basically just words thrown together and a person has to decipher what you are saying to make any sense of them.
Secondly, you seem to be spending a lot of time worrying about this guys sexuality. Are you SURE you are not questioning yourself along with him? You sound confused about yourself to me.
2007-01-11 11:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him if he is gay next time you are in the showers after games? Then you'll know one way or another...
2007-01-11 13:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by PSAF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually its all the rage with the younger generation.. this hugging/kissing thing...just have to watch Celebrity Big Brother ... anyone leaves...theyre into this hugging thing.
2007-01-11 18:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok stay away from him i guess. but be nice to him. its like u and GIRLS. thats how he feels excepot towards YOU or GUYS. so just let it go he wont do it again just ask him hey do u like guys or something polite do not do it infront of other people thopugh thats rude and immature. good luck
2007-01-11 07:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I expect he felt sorry for you because you can't spell and your English is deplorable.
2007-01-11 09:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋