So like, She is just not blunt but really mean sometimes. She has me rethinking myself am asking is she right or wrong, even though I know she is wrong for speaking out so much. I could like agree with another person and she would be like "Oh shutup Erika" just because i agreed too. I mean its my opinion if i do or not.
But the other side of it is that she can be really funny sometimes. We are friends and stuff but when she does stuff like that i dont even know what to say, Its just really not cool at all. If i try to tell her something she will look in the corner of her eyes at this other person and roll her eyes, then act like she is listening.
And if i ask her a question she will like get an attitude and not wanna give it to me, but if she asks a question she will first ask it rudely and then get an attitude if I dont know it.
What do yall think I should do?
2007-01-10 22:14:07 · 4 answers · asked by hellokittylee05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yea and like when I told her about how I was gonna be going to starbucks by myself she is like.. ."Well Duhhhhhh... Why do you never ask me?"
And like I think the problem is I hate to be mean to other people.
2007-01-11 10:06:39 · update #1
you are dealing with defining your own identity,otherwise you would'nt tolerate some one else's nonsense.dont take the attitude she throws on you ,like a slave. Tell her to shut the hell up, when she gives you shid..and if she still is living in her candy world ,disrespecting your feelings then tell her bye bye baby !
2007-01-10 22:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is acting. She may have seen a movie where this girl does these kind of things and she must have copied it. Many people does this. For e.g if tom cruise is naive in the movie then children also want to be naive.
At the moment she is controlling you because you are the one complaining. Build some confident, do your work independently and see what happens to her. She herself will come and talk to you nicely.
2007-01-11 06:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by prashmanic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you associating yourself with this person? She is not what you call a friend! she is poision... and what you are recieving is called emotional abuse!
drop her... She obviously is vicious... she cares only about herself and self image
2007-01-11 06:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she sounds like a real b'i't'c'h, dump her. and she is not your friend, she is just hanging out with u cos nobody else would tolerate such a behavior of hers
2007-01-11 06:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋