i have a friend. he used to love someone but she never loved him. but i love my friend very much & he also knows it. watching some activities of his, i think he also loves me now. but when i tell about it he tries to ignore it. oneday he told me not to leave him even oneday he told me now a day he loves someone & 3 days he have roamed with her. actually we have been made friendship over phone & we also roamed 3 days. when i asked who is she, he told me "u are that girl".but after someday he is telling me not to call him, not to send any sms. i cann't understand him. i don't want to lose my friend. i will never forget him. what will i do.
2007-01-10 22:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds as if your friend is really not ready for a true love relationship and has inner struggles with his feelings for you. He knows he loves you as a good friend but maybe wonders if it could be more. Also sometimes people who are good friends are afraid to change it to a love relationship for fear that if it does not work out, then the firendship will be over also. Seems he really enjoys the friendship you two have together and is concerned of not ever losing it. Be patient, continue to be his friend, but also put your focus on making other friendships as well. Do not hurry up to make him love you, give each other space and make alot of other friends, if it is meant to be, then it will happen one day at the right time. My best to you!
2007-01-11 02:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is either very confused or very selfish and is using u. in both the cases you are the peson who is gettting hurt so its best to clear up the matter as soon as possible. why should you do his hose work and care for him when he cant even be loyal to you? tell him clearly that either he should be with you or break all realtions.
2007-01-10 22:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl U need 2 talk 2 him. N if he is not receiving ur call then call him from PCO.
This is the only way u can get ur all answers
2007-01-10 22:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It's natural. Only reason he is doing this that because he loves you very much. I did it with my girl friend. Just keep on hanging with him.
In fact he is judging you. He wants to see how much you panic in these kind of situation. Remember boys like confident girls.
2007-01-10 22:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by prashmanic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply ask him what he wants from you. He sounds as though he's playing games with you to me, or very confused. Don't push anything on him though. Maybe he loves you like a sis or something.
Just ask what going on, but don't be harsh about it.
2007-01-10 22:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen my friend i dont think that u should allow anyone 2 play with ur imotions Try to ignore him
2007-01-10 22:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Nikita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there might be some problem with either he might be in some trouble with parents or some personel problem i think you must give him some time all will be right best of luck if u want you can call me any time 09997111917
2007-01-10 22:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kanishka A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on.. Llife has so much to offer you! You will surely forget this "confused" person..
Start a new hunt! or if you are tired, take little rest :)..
2007-01-10 22:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Saurav Arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not a good friend
pl find some one else
2007-01-10 23:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him that wheather he is ready for marriage. r interested only in enjoing.
2007-01-10 22:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by ramani m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋