2007-01-10 22:02:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Actually, most women have lesbian feelings - its just the way that they are built. Many of them have also experimented with other girls, but they just don't admit it as much. For instance, women can look at other women and think "oh she's beautiful". But you never hear a straight guy calling another guy "hot". Also, studies have been done to show that both straight guys and 'straight' girls get sexually excited by viewing guy-on-girl and girl-on-girl sex. However, both groups think man-on-man is nasty. Plus, that is why you see girls making out with each other at bars after drinking. Its because their inhibitions are down and they dont worry about trying to hide their true feelings.
2007-01-10 23:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by kj 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's an all too common generalization. The gays who are mostly noticed look cute, but there are countless others who don't want to be in the spotlight, and "look and act straight." The same phenomenon is with lesbians. The ones that get the most attention and are in the spotlight are usually the butch ones, but most lesbians don't want to be in the spotlight and look just like normal women. If you want an example of a beautiful lesbian in the spotlight, look at Cynthia Nixon.
2007-01-11 06:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by roxusan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Gays are absolutely /adorable!/ But not all lesbians are butches, a lot of them appear to be quite girly, it all depends on the person. Just like some gays are so neon you can tell with just one glance and others you wouldn't even be able to tell if you knew them for 10 years (this happened to my mom when she found out after a few years that one of her best guy friends was gay. She could never tell after all those years.)
That's why I get so frustrated when I find out a guy is gay... only because I normally find them so attractive.
2007-01-11 06:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by cali haze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's soooooo not true. Haven't you ever heard of "lipstick lesbians"? Maybe the stereotypical lesbian woman is butch, the one you can pick out in a crowd but there are many that you could not. Also, not ALL gay guys are cute. Stop making such generalizations about people.
Portia de Rossi is a lesbian: http://www.askmen.com/imagesvote/2004_jul/women_who_love_women/portia_de_rossi.JPG
2007-01-11 07:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Miss D 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That entire sentence is a stereotype.As a gay man I have attended many social events that had members of the GLBT community and while some did fit into stereotypes, not all of them did.I saw some really attractive lesbian women that seemed like they came out of a glamor magazine and some gay men that looked like the came out of a rough neck motorcycle gang, complete with the leather jackets, tattoos everywhere, long beards, and pot bellies
2007-01-11 06:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that gay guys are only cute if they are like so cute and adorable but if they are like fat and stuff with gross stuff and ugly clothes then I think they are so NOT cute. I think that lesbians are really butch if they are so butch that they look butch and act that way but if they have like really red lipstick and super high high heels and nice bags then I think they are so NOT butch and hedious. Personally I think that cute and handsome and manly gay guys are so cute and manly. It's just my opinion you know IMOAO etc. etc. ecc. ecc.ecc.
2007-01-11 06:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Y*G*L ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is all what you want out of life. I prefer a butch woman who can play a great game of softball and enjoy tapping a keg afterwards. Or, give me a sister who is a member of Dykes on Bikes and I am in Heaven.
2007-01-11 06:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys care how they look and thus are "cuter." Butch lesbians care how they look as much as straight guys; I wouldn't say they are "hideous" but they aren't like lipstick lesbians or the typical straight girl where they would care about hwo they look like 24/7. By the way, as a bi guy, thanks ;). lol
2007-01-11 06:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...i'm pretty indifferent to guys, so i can't really comment on whether gay guy's are cute or not,...i guess that would be in the eye's of the beholder, right?
...as for lesbians being butch and hideous?,...oh my hon, you must be living a very sheltered life,...a statement like that is definitely not the way to make friends and influence people,...why don't you e-mail me, and we can make arrangements for you to meet up with me and my gf,...i think you might change your mind, *wink*
...hope you have a enlightening day! *kiss*
2007-01-11 06:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Probably because of your odd way of looking at the matter. I had a good laugh when I read this . Would you care to be introduced to some nice looking women ? You will be quite safe.
Rose P.
2007-01-11 22:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by rose p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋