can i take him to court as he threw me out and left me with nothing our divorce is not through until march or april
2007-01-10 21:58:03 · 19 answers · asked by annamalvern 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not quite sure what you "want to be done about it" I would seek legal advice from your solicitor, if you dont have one already, there are a few solicitors that will do a fixed fee interview and will be able to tell you where you stand.
2007-01-10 22:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Denise H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you already signed the divorce papers and just waiting for them to be processed. You should have thought about sticking it to him before you signed the papers. If you have already signed the papers you can't do anything. Also what do you think the court will do? Scold your husband because he already has a girlfriend? They won't do that nor should they have to. Don't be vindictive and move on with your life. Your happiness will be your revenge. good luck
2007-01-10 22:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and seek legal advice.. i don't know what country u are living in but in europe the laws have changed and no one is to "blame" anymore for a seperation etc. Have u any kids, if so the whole situation is completely different and he will have to pay for both you and your child/ren.
your best bet is to seek a lawyer or solicitor who specialiezes in this area. check up and see about the "state" taking over the costs because if u really have nothing they will pay. go to your solcial welfare and find out if u are entitled to anything for a start.
try and get ur life back on track, look for work, build up a social circle and keep your head up..
Best of luck :)
2007-01-10 22:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the us, the court system doesn't really care about adultery anymore, or who hurts who. this kind of thing happens every day, although i am not trying to minimize it, or say it is right, no one seems to care anymore. depends on how many years u were married as to how much alimony u will get. but if your husband doesn't have any money, u can't get blood out of a turnip. best to get a job and just deal with it, as there isn't too much one can do unless they have children and then he will be required to pay child support.
2007-01-10 23:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannt do anything about the girlfriend as he will say it happened after however you are entitled to half of what ever you had before he threw you out. You can if in Uk get free legal consultation on this and they will tell you what you can and cant do and what you are intitled too.
I hope that helps.
2007-01-11 01:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god that is shocking i would take pictures of them 2getha and if you can record him being rude or saying nasty things to you this will build a case 4 you he is a loser and you r 2 good 4 that you have 2 make him pay 4 what he did and get enough evidence that he treated you this way good luck
2007-01-10 22:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ღ☆ shoesaholic ☆ღ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a lawyer immediately.
Yes, something can be done about it but ask someone with more legal expertise. I'm assuming he's moved the other woman in?
2007-01-10 22:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by wickedxjade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long you were married & also the situation where you are currently living, get a good solicitor, one who knows all.
2007-01-12 09:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer
you can find one for low to no cost
call your local social services dept and ask for legal help
as long as you did nothing wrong before you got kicked out
ie. cheating/abuse
2007-01-10 22:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a new lover and this will then help take your mind off your husbands affair.
2007-01-10 22:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by I.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋