well we been together for a while and do 2 hurricane katrina we kind of got displace in had a long distance relationship but we was on the phone 24/7 and deeply in love.but one time we fell out in all of a sudden we kind of stop talking for 4 months so i just recently reach back out 2 her to let her no that i still love her and that i never cheated on her and that i wanna be with her. but she just listen and her reply is always i dont know what should i do?
2007-01-10 21:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its over, move on..
2007-01-10 21:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry that you had to go through this, Katrina must have been hard, I live in Australia, so I don't truly know how bad it was, but I've seen a lot of footage. About your girlfriend, maybe there is something going on at her end? Why doesn't she know if she wants to be with you? She may have just fallen out of love, or is having troubles emotionally. If you really love her, then just stand by her, and eventually she may come round. Prove yourself o be a loyal man, and if she loves you, then all is good.
2007-01-11 06:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by pjveddergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the best thing you can do is,show her how much you still love her,actions speak a lot louder than words..
Send her flowers,go see her,send cards.I am sure you can think of a lot of things to do that don't cost an arm and a leg.
Communication is the big key here,ask her to voice why she fells that she can't trust you,give her a chance to say things even if it's not what you want to hear.When you respond,talk quietly,and respectfully.
2007-01-11 06:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by raventears56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, it's natural. My girl friend and I talked whole day and suddenly after 3 weeks we didn't talked to each other. After investigating with few science books i realized it was natural.
She thinks that she is an independent lady and you think that she cannot live without you.
ONLY ONE CURE.
Just go to her and ask her out for a walk on the streets (sea wall is better). Don't talk about your relationship. Just talk about old memories and illogical topics like weather, climate, new dress in the town, new shop in the street. Finally one golden rule. Whenever u talk to her just keep on saying her name. for e.g Where are u now Mary?. Do u like these breeze Mary?. Mary u are great.
2007-01-11 06:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by prashmanic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so you have told her how you have not been involved with anybody else. But have you asked her about the same. For 4 months when you didn't called her, remember that she also didn't called you.
2007-01-11 06:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new maybe she has moved on. 4 months is a long time.
2007-01-11 05:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree the distance has torn you apart, its not about trust ,she probably has someone new in her life ...
2007-01-11 06:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by rachel m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋