2007-01-10 21:43:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IF IT IS TRUE LOVE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO ACCEPT IT..
BUT ON ONE CONDITION.. WITH YOUR PARENTS WISHES AND BLESSINGS..
2007-01-10 21:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by YUGA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. First be sure whether he loves u realy?It is difficult to judge a person till such time u know more about him. Love marriages r never successful /u must bring ur parents in.Otherwise now in India it is other way round/ better stay with somebody instead u marry but that needs a very matured judgement/ U can choose friends n not relations/ This may look odd but accept the reality.
At any stage dont ignore ur parents/they hve an edge over all your decision. I am not discouraging u but all this love /sex/romance is BAKWAS. True friendship is above all the relations. If he really loves u /wait for some time/ talk ur weak point s to him/Dont ask questions let him volunteer himself/ This is a brotherly advice/ dont take it otherwise. U owe more to ur parents n should not hurt them. With their consent u can go a headbut on meritsDont get sentimental.Accept the reality. God bless u. R
2007-01-11 06:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW COME U R BREAKING FAITH this shows you r in teens well its not the faith you will break but probably its an early etep whereas you can and should take more time for such things and even it happens at a later stage i wd suugest let your parents get involved in it if u wd have let me know the location from where u belong things wd have been much easier for me to advise properly
2007-01-11 06:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Faith they have in you or their religious faith? If it is against your religious beliefs please don't do it. A clean conscience is so important and you don't want to do something behind your parents back and then you will have a guilty conscience and that is not a good thing to live with. Just be honest with your parents and tell them what you are feeling inside. They love you and want the best for you :O)
2007-01-11 18:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jason W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don´t give him a try, you´ll never know...
Try to be his friend first and get to know him better and maybe you´ll find out that you love him, too.
You´re not breaking the faith of your parents as you ain´t doing anything wrong.
2007-01-11 05:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just relax.... do what u wish to .....ur parents don't decide what is wrong or right... it is a very individualistic approach....he loves u... or is it both sided? if u love him and u wish to try the relation its all up to u and if u dont love him then there is no point in any kind of confusion..watever u decide stick by it...and all the best
2007-01-12 15:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy love you okay we know but you still love your parents more than him thats why you consider not breaking their hearts by taking a step so its better you tell him that you need time may be to convince you parents if that what you want
2007-01-11 18:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the guy is trustworthy and really wants to marry you then please tell you parents about him i think after some time they will become cool and will allow you to marry him but in case they are not ready you marry him by your own risk as i have done and now my parents are happy and have proud on my decision.
2007-01-12 13:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by rinku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at School & college level is just physical attraction & nothing more. Please concentrate on your study, work. Think about getting something extra ordinary in the life. Love, marriage, sex are the parts of our life & not an entire life.
2007-01-11 06:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by agni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First give a second thought whether U also do the same what he does. See whether he with your family.If you r not really inlove with him just ignore him.
2007-01-11 05:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by shanky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i can help you in this...., if you really want to chat regarding this, you can Mesg me on yahoo... IM.
Belive me, both play Important role in your LIFE. because one gives birth then other stays with you till your Death. do not take any hasty decision and regret later.
Cheers,
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2007-01-12 05:56:56 · answer #11 · answered by Jags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋