she has an issue who is a grown up son
2007-01-10 21:24:33 · 29 answers · asked by shabnam_aamir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why not?
2007-01-10 21:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pursuit of happiness is the right of everybody. The grown up son being an issue is a little vague. He is sick?
Who is asking the question? the window, the son, a friend, the future husband?
Maybe the window with the issue of a grown up son needs to find a widower with the issue of a grow up daughter.
2007-01-15 04:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is "Yes". She can remarry without any restriction. After all she has heart and feelings and need of sexual intercourse. If she has become widow, and if she is young, the impulse of sex becomes very much pressing and she cannot control herself in sex. It is because of the fact that she has already got the sexual pleasure witgh her husband, She should not be deprived of this pleasure. She can marry even if she has got a grown up son. There is no bar for remarriage.
2007-01-11 05:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the son who is writing, then perhaps getting to the root of your objections with your mom is a good idea.
Communication is key.
Is she thinking of marrying someone who is like or way different from her deceased husband? Does she have a behavioural pattern of abuse or neglect with men in general? Do you think the new man is not good enough for her or won't be good to her?
If you are the man looking to marry this same widow, then if she has a lot of baggage, including the objections of the said son, then YOU need to step back and be a peacemaker , bend over backwards if need be to let them sort out the baggage THEY have--because once you are married, you are married to them all--for better or for worse!
Good Luck!
2007-01-11 08:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes if planned properly she can. make sure that the child understand why he has to share his mother with a complete stranger. idealy both he and his step father should come close. but if that is not possible then atleast they should get along with each other. it should be remembered that the child cant be expected to make any changes. it's the grown ups who will have to compromise a lot.
they should not assume that just because they are happy together the child too will be happy. the step father should not make the child feel that he is taking his mother away but asure him that they are all a family.
2007-01-11 05:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep she sure can.. the son isnt the issue.. the son just loves his dad, and is scared.. for her.. but the son needs to realize that if she picks the right man, that he's not trying to take his dads place, just wants to be a part of their lives and love their mother and make her happy..
2007-01-11 05:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES OFCOURSE a widow can marry nd stay happy gone r those time when a widow had 2 support a white sarree ....thnx 2 the widened thinking of the society..one cannot live life wit just sum memories of sum one nd cry for the rest of ur life....the one who left u also wants 2 see u happy.....so let his soul rest i peace......go ahead
2007-01-11 05:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by vanica c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes for sure. Then, it would be advisable to discuss with the son (if he is grownup) the future and the need and how he would be supported by the new man and so on. Again, the man chosen for marriage should marry her for the right reasons, and not for money etc.etc.
All the best for her
2007-01-11 07:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by dell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is best if she remarries as one day the son will grow and take his wife and live atleast she will have a partner of her age to talk and live her life.
2007-01-15 05:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not, I don't see a grown up son cause any problem as long as he's a grown up and he should understand what's best to his mother and how important for his important to have a family and be happy again and he should appreciate that he has a new family and new dad.
2007-01-11 05:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, provided it is the right person. As for the grown up son, if he cant be supportive that is his problem.
2007-01-11 05:50:19 · answer #11 · answered by michelle_in_aus2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋