does being who you are really help?

Answer 1

yep, but maybe not so much if ur a bad person ...but definately, that way people like u for who u r, not who u want to be or who ur trying to be

Answer 2

It's kinda complecated. You should always be yourself, but generally with negative people you want to keep it to youself. Just observe what's going on. However somebody is probably not happy with yourself. Probably you and other people, so the real question may be, what do you need to know and why don't you know it? Without knowing exactly, usually most people's problem is the same. They don't watch situations closely enough to see what's going on or something sneaks up on them while they are not noticing. They get flustered and emotional and can't think straight. I guess at those times they had best be quiet, calm down, to not be emotional and keep observing to see wwhat's going on. Don't look at it as how it affects me, because that's too small an angle. You want to look at the big picture and then, if you get that, then you know where you fit. Few have a big enough picture, so if you do you'll be well ahead of the game. The game is that someone else is doing something and you don't know what, so you have to ask someone close enough to know and try to figure it out yourself, and that means going back to watching the situation and what people do. You see how watching keeps coming up. That's because, with enough information, anyone knows what's going on. The real trick is to be looking at what you want to be and figuring out how to be it, then you will be what's happening and everyone else will have to come to you to find out. In other words, it's not being who you are, but trying to be who you want to be. That way you are happening, growing and not so concerned about who everyone else is being, with the bonus that you will better see what theyre doing too because you'll be interacting with them more on small things and you are outside yourself doing something and in the scene. In a way thinking about being who you are is not as effective as being proactive. Active in how to do what you want to do which everyone may not 100% agree with so just be tactful. You see the different mind set? I don't. This will help me if I figure it out. I guess, if you are trying out a lot of things and a few fail while trying to get where you want to go, your not too upset. If your in yourself, it's everything, win or lose. And guess what, you automatically lose because you're not going anywhere. It's not bad to find that out. A lot of people are going somewhere, their out there, they see more of what's going on at the same time as there partly involved, but their going the wrong place. In fact that's usually the case. You on the other hand are probably going the right place, more or less, so your walking cautiously, but you lose the headway you need. Conpared to you have to paddle real hard to catch a wave while looking around and real alert. Get a lot of things going, some big and some small and the momentum will carry you on, that is, your enthusism and successes. A top executive make thousands of hopefuly little mistakes and he gets somewhere. A cautious person works for him. I like people for who their trying to be, to a point.There's a balance. I mean unless your real important and even if you are, it doesn't matter so much who you are because that's really mostly who you were, if you think about it. Hopefully you are dealing with today and how it's changing you. Growing fast enough that you have to watch out who you're becoming. That's going to be good or a problem. Not just who you're becoming tomorrow, but who're you becoming today. Live not a statistic, it's a happening. The stuff you learned in school is all being disproved while as we speak. People say that it's the same old same old, but actually every day is alive and so must you be. Hope that makes sense.

Answer 3

Yes it does. If you aren't happy with being who you are then you can change the parts of yourself that are the problem or make you unhappy. However if you are unhappy being someone else then what do you change and who else do you become?

Answer 4

Yes people then see the real you and not a fake and get to love you for how you are

Answer 5

yes it does coz when u act urself and people doesnot like it then it's their problem but if u act someone else and people accept it u should know that those people doesnot like u but likes the fake personality u have

Answer 6

It is all you can be. Don't live a lie. Don't copy other people. Do what you want, Be what you want and Live as you would like to.

Answer 7

i think it helps, though i am not very sure what you mean.