should she mentions her past dating experiences, or not?
what would be her image?
2007-01-10 20:53:57 · 20 answers · asked by Nanou (",) 3 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
Not!!!!
Take it from a guy's prespective. And read the answers of all the guys , you will find out that they all said "no" . Unlike what girls think that honesty here is important, you are better off without that.
I don't mean that you should be a liar. Honesty is good, but I really think that when a guy gets into in a relationship he wants to start something new and fresh, he likes to believe that all the words he is going to hear and all the nice treatment he is about to get, were given to no one else.
So, out of respect for the new guy, don't tell him anything. Guys know. We know that girls may have had experiences in the past. I mean we live in the 21st century. Girls go to college and stuff like that. We don't wanna know about them any way. Sometimes we get nosy, and we want to ask, but u should be wiser any way and live your life.
Cheers and have a nice day
2007-01-11 02:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
Arabic guys don't take it too well when you tell them about ur past experiences. In their minds, guys could and are allowed to do anything, but it's a big NO NO for a girl to have a past. It's kind of frown upon. On the other hand, I believe in honesty, it's the best policy! So just leave ur past behind and go forward. If u really want to tell the guy about ur past experiences, then just wait a little until he gets to know u better. That way he's not judging the relationship based on the "past" but based on who u really are and the "present".Good luck :)
2007-01-11 14:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by fldrod 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's generally not a good idea for a girl to discuss her past dating experiences. It won't add anything to her new relationship, but it might end up hurting it. If a guy is open minded, it won't make a difference to him and if he isn't, it might ruin your chances with him; therefore there's really no point in discussing it.
2007-01-12 04:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Carmenasks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me as an eastern guy, a woman that does not say anything about her previous relationships is not trustworthy. we are in 21th century, I as men understand that a woman I like is not borne to be with me: she must have had previous experiences.
This way if i know better about her, and she knows more about me, the relationship together has abigger chance to blossom or else there would be a big disance because of concealing issues.
2007-01-11 12:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If an "Eastern Girl" going to be with an "Eastern Guy" then things are different. No matter how much that guy is "open" minded, he does not need to know everything, specially if the girl had many relationships.
From an "Eastern" girl to anothr ( i guess ) be a bit discreet.
2007-01-11 08:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Razan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends. If you are looking for something similar to what you are telling him about, then fine. If you've done something during one of your "experimental phases" which you are no longer in, maybe not. For example, you may not want to tell someone who you are seeking a long term relationship with that you have had sex on every means of locomotion known on the planet if he's not the type to have done such things and you don't intend to continue on such trends. Otherwise, I suggest being as open and honest as possible.
2007-01-11 05:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by soulfuljim1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look hun,it depends on who are you dealing with,I mean the guy whom you will tell,just be honest with yourself are you smart enough to know exactly how your guy will react to this or you can misjudge,look I believe you better don't mention it specially there is nothing you will get out of telling,but if there is tiny winy possibility he might know about it so go a head tell him it'll be better when it come through you
Good luck Honey
2007-01-11 10:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think she should tell with all honestly if she was asked. I believe lying and hiding will not lead to good results because she will be with someone who does not like her for what she is (since she hid the truth) and he will not have chosen her on the correct grounds.
I prefer to tell everything with all honesty and if the guy I like does not like it then he's not the right person for me.
2007-01-11 05:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by rinah 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey girl believe me there is no need to tell ur past to anybody, nobody will appreciate ur honesty, they will blame u...we live with close minded here although our religion is a religion of forgivness, and every person should appreciate the situation of the other...believe me your confession could ruin ur life...just forget about ur past whether it was good or bad...always start a new page...
good luck:)
2007-01-11 18:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by ^Butterfly^ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say, that you should be honest with the Guy. Don't mention anything unless he asks and when he does don't lie, because lying doesn't get you anywhere except into more trouble! God bless x
2007-01-11 14:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋