i used to be best friends with this girl-jessica. About 2 years ago we had got separated by different schools so we weren't close friends anymore. Our friendship is kinda weird- she doesn't like me having new friends at my school, says i care about them and not her. I don't like that. And I feel slightly jealous when something great happens to her. Now we're not friends anymore. I found out yesterday that she has a bf and i can't stop thinking about it. Am i jealous of her or am i just feeling lonely?
2007-01-10 20:49:16 · 8 answers · asked by Rayne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when u were at school ur friendship was not real , u were just friends becuz u go to the same school , so there was some tension btween u , u weren't really honest friends , honestly i think u r being jealous here (wich is smthing normal ppl have), cuz u didn't say u miss ur friend or somthing , so it's not lonliness. but just stop thinking abt it it's useless
2007-01-10 21:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but thats exactly what happened to my friends when i went into high school. it was slightly annoying she got all the boys and was really really pretty. now were friends and talk over the net haha and were heaps different in ways i am jealous andhappy for her but you cant help being jealous.. i guess you could be jealous or your just missing her company and want to see how she's giong and all that this is just my opinion im not doctor or anything =] but yea i think you still wanna be friends with her so just try and be nice and see her everynow and again and i hope that works. you can socailise with her new friends and her to yours and then she wont be annoyed as much .. i think thats a bit wrong of her saying you care about your other frends more than her. i mean she cant exactly judge- that its just because you may spend more time with theese friends and talk about them with her about stuff seems so you dont have anything to talk about with her so then you talk about them if theres anything similar, actually my friend did have this problem when i did that haha but we got over it lol
i hope it al goes well and you girls get over it and have fun i mean fighting is annoying and i hate it so ive jsut lernt be nice to everyone if there actually nice people they'll be nice back
love lauren .xxx
2007-01-10 20:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both,but I think that you are more jealous and selfish because she has a bf and because good things happen to her.I am telling you this because I had similar problem like yours 1 year ago.Actually in my situation I was feeling like you(we didn't hang out so much but we were close enough) and I was the first to have a bf and I was still feeling like this.At first I thought that I was feeling lonely but after my bf I just realized that it is jealousy.So, you decide!
2007-01-10 20:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about who you are and who your friend Jessica is. Your life is made up of all the experiences you encounter in your life. They make you the individual you are. Try and consider how other people affect who you are and then try and make a choice to only let them affect your life in a positive way. Remember, Hate someone and they might never know, Love someone and it will show. Hope this Helps. :)
2007-01-10 21:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Peter C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your jealous of her and maybe you just care for her for what her bf might do to her, about her new environment and new friends
2007-01-10 21:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Emillie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
normal to happen this case lah!just make a naturel friends loh!
2007-01-10 20:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a crush on her... You'll get over it
2007-01-10 20:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're a lesbian?
2007-01-10 20:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mike S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋