My husband was looking for friends to invite to his 360 page. He used the search thingy, and asked me if i minded him looking up some girls. I was okay with that, I have guy friends (i stress, FRIENDS) so fair's fair right? Later on, i asked how he was going, he said good, and then i asked where he found so many pretty girls (i was still ok at this stage) What had he searched for?
SEXY girls. It's hard enough that i'm having a bad time at the moment with my insecurities (your body ain't the same after 4 kids!!!) and it made me feel like i wasn't good enough for him anymore. I've been trying SO hard to lose all the excess weight i've put on and now it feels like he's just rubbing it in that I'm a flabby fat@ss. I know i'm having a big whinge here, but so what?
2007-01-10 20:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
u poor thing...thats not fair on ur behalfe at all...you should tell your man how its affecting you and that u need support on getting fit and ur emotions at the moment...it must be hard having 4 kids bee over weight and a husband that is making life hard for you...but just remember everyone goes through rough stages of there life, but it only gets beta and every relation ship has its up ands down...if he didn love u im sure he woodn still b around....hey at least he isnt looking up males!!!!! hope my advice has helped a bit :)
2007-01-10 20:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, you'll bounce back hun. All women feel like this whilst preggers and even after as you say. Don't beat yourself up, you've just given him another wonderful gift of a baby, these skinny so called sexy girls haven't. Let him off this time, we all do stuff on line that perhaps we wouldn't want others to see, except me, I look up knitting patterns and that's it honest.
2007-01-11 04:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by mizzsquitz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a way, you have only yourself to blame, for "allowing" him to look for women as friends...why the duck would he have a need to do this? If it just "happens" that is one thing, but looking up friends..why does he need "sexy" female friends? You need to have a long talk with him and set some firmer (less harmful) ground rules for this kind of thing.
I am sorry you are sad. Putting yourself down is not going to help you though. Please do not call yourself a flabby fatassss. Not productive!
I send you hugs. Please email me if you would like.
2007-01-11 04:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK... moms always get blamed for everything... Your size should not matter.. Its whats in your heart. If he wants to look at girls that weigh 115 pounds or whatever, then he is just a dog. I'm sorry you have to put up with this
2007-01-11 04:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol looks sweetie dont be sad
if he doesnt love u its easy for him to leave u
but he is smart man he is trying to make u feel jealous and he is sure now that u love him to death
if u want to make him sad and in bad mood that is easy
act as dont care and as u r happy and he will cry because he didnt be able to make u feel jealous
2007-01-11 04:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now i understand!!! hhhmmm
come on, u said its ok if he invites frends so u shld've expected 4 some sexy girls 2 appear later on...
ur his wife & he respects u.. coz if not, he wudn't have taken ur permission on d 1st place..
nothin 2 worry sweetie! im sure if u tell him those chicks bother u, he'll delete them w/all his heart!
2007-01-11 04:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know this if so maybe you should sit down and tell him How that made you feel he can't read your mind Good Luck
2007-01-11 04:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Leveler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Add me as your friend - then he'll be worried about the competition and will behave better - maybe
2007-01-11 09:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie , cheer up ..
2007-01-11 04:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by ImperfectPiinkiish♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:-) feel better
2007-01-11 04:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋