I have horrible dreams of my man still cheating on me and lieing. How do I get through this? How do I stop these nightmares? Please help kindly!
2007-01-10 19:59:55 · 11 answers · asked by joyall57 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am still with him. He cheated in August, and we have started all over. I have been with him for 6 1/2 years.
2007-01-10 20:03:58 · update #1
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2007-01-11 01:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dreams like that all the time and my guy didnt even cheat but I wake up hurt and mad sometimes anyway, The best way to conquer this is to get through it. Get the emotions out of your heart. Put them on table for him. It could clear your mind, which is what is causing these dreams. Eventually you will be more confident in your relationship and they will stop. Try not to think about them too much, they are just silly dreams.
2007-01-10 20:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Nightmares" are nonconscious appearances of unresolved conflicts and/or stressors. You said "my man still cheating," and I can only assume that you're still with him. If someone has cheated on you and you chose to stay with the person, you will have a tough time battling the suppressed anger and resentment you have towards him. I suggest (1.) evaluating whether you made the right choice by choosing to stay with the person and (2.) (if you believe you did make the right choice) giving yourself daily positive reinforcement of where the relationship is headed.
Make sure to work on yourself and your life, to keep in the right direction, and maintain a level-headed understanding of your boyfriend and his reasons for his infidelity.
2007-01-10 20:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Glynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times has he cheat on u? What makes u stay with him after u found out he cheats? If ur answer is giving him a 2nd chance...then stop being doubtful. Cos u kept thinking abt it during the day, u will tend to dream abt it at night.
2007-01-10 20:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman needs or deserves the stress of a cheating man.
U seroulsly need to cut him lose and out of your life.
Stay away from him, he is giving u nightmares and if u can't see him then he will become a distant memory.
Honey, cut him faster then your slpit ends, and fill ur days with happiness and good food.
2007-01-10 20:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Purple Haze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are determined to save the relationship, the best thing to do is maybe consider counselling for you both to resolve whatever doubts you are having (and you must be with the dreams and all) and to try and get things back on track. Work at building up trust again and get all your feelings out in the open so its perfectly clear to him how things are
2007-01-11 13:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by OziGirl_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand how u must be feeling. U cant entirely trust him as he has cheated on u before. If he is actually sorry for what he did and realised his mistakes, perhaps u should give him another chance. Talk to him about your feelings and insecurities. If he loves u,he'll help u out and assure u.
2007-01-10 20:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me Unzip my pants.
Hopefully this will help you forget the nightmares.
2007-01-10 20:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by HAPPY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. First you need to come to the realization that this isnt true.. you need to tell yourself, and take your mind off of it and put it on something else.. I suggest reading a book before you fall asleep or fall asleep watching tv etc.
2007-01-10 20:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Llama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still with him? Did you talk to him about it? Maybe that would help?
2007-01-10 20:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by moosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋