I love someone very much but i know it very well that i cann't get marry with him.
Many time i have tried to forget him but i could not & i will never forget him. watching some activities of his,i think he also love me but when i tell him about it then he tries to ignore it. Still he takes my phone calls,replies my sms and even he also make me calls.so please tell me what will i do.
2007-01-10 19:57:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that guy is ignorging you for you to miss him(i know since i'm also a guy)and pliz don't tell him that you love him(guys don't like it).care for him n he will tell you that he loves you.have patience.
2007-01-10 21:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by ridleyjopling 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant marry him 'coz he dosent love u....or is there any other reason?? if he dosent love u then may be he is taking ur calls jus out of sympathy or 'coz he's a gud frnd of ur's nd he dont want 2 hurt u........i think the more u try 2 forget him the more u'll love him
2 forget sum one the best way 2 get started is to start counting on his bad habits nd once u start doing this slowly nd gradually u'll be able to get him out of ur life........or may be u can too start ignoring him ,then he may realise ur importance in his life,,,,if still he dosent then i must say this guy is a waste of time so plzzzzz get ur self a rescue from thid relationship as soon as possible.....like ppl say THE MORE TIME U SPENT WIT MR. WRONG, THE LESS TIME U'LL GET TO SPEND WIT UR MR. RIGHT...........nd go ahead wit it faster before he could make use of u......use can be in any form........may god bless u.....nd help u make the right decision!
2007-01-10 21:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by vanica c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you add some detail and tell us why you can't marry him?
Is he married already or won't your family allow you to marry him, does he live in another country, is there a big age-difference, etc?
Does he know you love him? Have you actually told him? If not, then be brave and tell him. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Ask him how he feels about you. Does he love you or just like you?
2007-01-10 20:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he feels the same as you do. He probably knows that a future marriage with you is out of the question. This is the reason why he encourages you to stay in touch. He probably suffers like you do. If you know that there is no future for both of you romatically, then accept the friendship he has for you.
Try not to obsess about it. Keep yourself busy with other friends.
Accept the situation as it is. The same has happened to me once. After many years it doesn't hurt anymore as much.
2007-01-12 02:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by srnandan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, set him free. If he comes back, you know he is yours. If he doesn't, you know it was never meant to be. That means do not call him ever again. Period. Consider him out of your life. Date someone other people. If he calls, you can either decide to have a relationship together, or start the painful process all over, i.e. don't call him, forget about him,....
Peace and good luck to you.
2007-01-10 20:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decision is something which one should make on their own. You should gather as much knowledge as possible on any particular subject in which you like to take some decisions. After gathering the knowledge you must analyze them independently with you cultural and educactional back ground and decide. Do not at any point of time allow other to make decisions for you. It is dangerous.
2007-01-10 20:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by KNOWALL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that he ignores you when you tell about your intention.Just keep contacting him for discussion & other issues. You should divert your attention by reading newspapers, books, magazines through which you can go in other part of world. There are many more things which, can be done in this beautiful world than the person who does not love you. Engage yourself in sports activities.You will enjoy this life.
2007-01-10 22:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by agni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not mentioned why you cannot get married?
If he loves you and cannot marry you there might be more reasons that you need to find out, why?
But if you really think that you two can get married legally, make sure that the message is conveyed to him bold and clear that you love him and would be very happy to marry him.
2007-01-10 20:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
In my opinion, he feels that you are his very good friend. Nothing more than that.
Again, he is a very nice person as he don't wanted you to waste your time for him. Better praise his this nature
Again, if you are student, then keeps your eye only on exams/ studies. If you are already settled then have a look around you, you will find lots of similar good persons near by.
2007-01-10 20:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by sourabh_gupta2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U told in above Question dat he told U not contact 2 him.
First make sure of it.
Well better talk 2 him. Or just move on as u said u know dat u can't marry him.
2007-01-10 22:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know due to some reasons u cann't get married with him, but u like him, so better for u make him ur gd friend, and have gd friendhsip for forever
2007-01-10 20:45:33 · answer #11 · answered by deep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋