2007-01-10 19:56:06 · 17 answers · asked by Lilian K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He does'nt want you to move in with him? well, maybe he is not financially very stable yet or looking for a better house....just wait for a while before coming to any decission....or you may just ask him in a nice way,what's wrong to move in...as you guys has already spend three years togather.....good luck
2007-01-10 20:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up...Leave!! You are too good for all the drama because obviously if you have stayed 3 years, you had every intention of making it work. He is hiding something. Its likely to be children, kids and an entire other life. Dump him and find someone who is ready to open you up to their real life because no offense, this guy is bogus. Come on, 3 years? Contact him and hold your ground, tell him straight up you think he's hiding something, tell him what makes you aware he is (not letting you go to his home in 3 years) and tell him you're gone. Don't even let him try to sweet talk you out of it because obviously he's the slick type.
2007-01-11 04:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how have you stayed with someone for three years, and the address you two are living in is not his home? It more sounds like an affair.
Anyways there can be many reasons why he doesn't want you to go to his home, maybe the neighborhood is not good enough for you, maybe he is sharing it with someone who believes that he is not involved with anybody else! (yes there can be both legitimate and illegitimate reasons for him not wanting you to visit his home).
Depends upon how good you know this guy. Ask him directly the reason he has to offer. And try to verify what he is saying without going there yourself. Then plan your life accordingly (and whatever your findings, I will always be uncomfortable to live with someone who doesn't want to be seen with me at his neighborhood).
2007-01-11 05:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by AnSID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did you stay? In sleazy motel rooms? Either he has no home\ or has a wife with kids...Maybe its not your fault
because you dont know..(Unless you can afford a dick )
Drop him .Why do all you morons thnk a man will tbe better for you?HYou been with him for "three" years???? Are you nuts or what? Your just a free lay getting old as his wife and kid probably are..Noway .The first thing a man does when he likes you is bring you to his home...Providing he has one..
2007-01-11 05:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by All Peaches an cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hiding something or someone. Have you asked him why he doesn't want you over to his home? If not, ask him. If he doesn't answer you, tell him there is an obvious lack of trust and tell him it's over. I doubt it if it's just because he's a lousy housekeeper.
2007-01-11 04:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds secretive...maybe he is married? U better get an answer from him...maybe he has his reasons...but confront him now before it's too late. And ur only asking after 3 yrs?
2007-01-11 04:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
? you have never been in his house at all? or he just wants distant? Its probably trashed out and hes afraid you will be horrified.. if you have already been in there and its clean then I don't know.. this is a peculiar question
2007-01-11 04:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Llama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has something to hide - probably a wife. It's ultimatum time.
2007-01-11 04:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Digby Chicken Bhuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. you have put up with this for a very long time.
You are his secret lover. He is using you big time.
Don't waste your time with him.
2007-01-11 04:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he apparently isnt serious about u or he's hiding some things from u. U better talk it out with him. If he doesn't co operate...yes..dump him
2007-01-11 04:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋