im a really shy girl and i dont want to be shy how could i be not shy please help
2007-01-10 19:46:21 · 6 answers · asked by shadow_angle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How to over come shyness
1. Make it a point to express what you feel or think at least once a day with friends or family even though you're shy, your shyness won't bite. Try to do the same with a complete stranger 1 a week.
2. When looking at mirrors make to compliment yourself out loud or in your head. Say things you would tell someone you love or deeply care about.
3. Understand that you can only be yourself. Know what you want and try to make up your mind quicker but stay very precautious. Its always best to be safe then sorry.
Shyness can be something that you have complete control over if you know how to take care of yourself and find courage in the truth.
2007-01-10 19:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think positive of yourself. Do not dwell in your weaknesses instead of your strengths. Dealing with a lot of people will really help. Although it's at first difficult but you will learn how not to be shy gradually so don't hurry it. Well, shyness can easily be overcomed. I have this friend who in our grade school years never say a word but now, she is very talkative. I have noticed that after she was able to find a group of peers who she always talk with, she has also developed confidence in herself and in socializing with others. Overcoming shyness is oftemtimes referred as personal but for me, it can be effectively achieved if done with your friends.
2007-01-11 05:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by tinywee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have something to say then say it,at least say hi to 2 people that you know but don't speak to unless they ask you something.don't sit anywhere by yourself.don't slouch and look down when your walking and when you enter a room look everyone in the eye.hope the suggestions help :)
2007-01-11 04:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like u once...but i learn to be more social. Guess only u can do changes to urself and no one else. All the best.
2007-01-11 03:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like u once.....but i learn to b more social.make more friends and do lot activity with them it will take time but believe me it work *all the best*
2007-01-11 04:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by chinnu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make more friend and do lot activity with them,,,,i'll take time but believe me it WORK.
2007-01-11 03:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by ALOHA BOY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋