The worst of life?

Question

What has been the worst things that have happened to you in life. If you can tell how it makes you feel about life.

My examples
- Been raped
- beaten up for elementry school
- been dealing with humans. Meaning people who will stomp on you no matter how nice you are to them or how much you try hard at life.
- Losing my uncle and then his wife practically steals everything of his that was supposed to go to other family members.
- another uncle wasting his money away (even some he borrowed from my grandparents) when he was supposed to take care of his wife and children.
- a blood father that did nothing but hurt my mother, till she left after I was born. And she still had to pay his debts.
-realised that most of the girls in my life have gone through sexual malestation or rape. Including one that I love, who only wants to be friends. Which I am willing to be but sad that I cannot be more.
- not having a job for half a year just because no one wants a new guy or to train him.
- no $ left

Answer 1

Here goes:

--raped twice
--parents divorced and did so behind our backs
--emotional abandonment
--physical abandonment
--beaten up by stepparents
--abused by real parents
--homelessness 3+ times
--robbed
--beaten with a hairbrush by a neighbor/mother did nothing about it.
--molested by stepfather
--getting fat & constantly picked on or ignored....
--kicked in the behind by someone forced to sit next to me on a school bus.
--having thyroid disease...TWICE! Hyper/Hypo
--being disabled and not being able to earn a substantial amount of money.
--not being able to make my dreams come true.
--having 5 miscarriages and only the one child in the end.
--I started smoking at 18 years of age. Stupid, stupid, stupid.....
--I wrecked a loved one's vehicle and now he can't have another one.
---and there is lots more I could list, but I'll stop here. I think you get the gist of it.....

How does it make me feel about life?.......Not good. Usually. It's really hard to think or to be optimistic when you have events like the above mentioned ones happening in your life. I've battled with crippling depression over the years. But I keep on keeping on. That's what I do best.... Push through it and keep on going....

Answer 2

For me, the worst thing is failure.

This may sound stupid and self-centred, but I have difficulty accepting failure. Many people such as my parents and teachers put their hopes on me and if I fail, they would be extremely disappointed, which in turn upsets me. On top of that, I have a chauvinistic father who keeps thinking that boys are better than girls in everything. I am a girl and every time I fail to make the right decision or do the right thing, I get blamed for it, just because I am a girl.

My mum is extremely paranoid about my grades. Once, my math marks dropped by one mark ( I got an A still)and my mum lectured me for a night. If I fail my major examinations, my parents would most probably kick me out of the house. If that happens, what shall I do?

so can you understand why I think the worst thing in life for me is failure?

Answer 3

Well I was sexually harassed when I was younger, and ever since then I haven't been able to forget but then when I did I dated this one guy who actually was my eff buddy and that's what I was there for, to full fill his needs, and I think that I didn't care because I was needed for something, and I felt wanted too, well anyways, ever since then I haven been able to be with someone, and it makes me sick because I want to be with someone, and I also think that with my past doesn't let me be romantic, and sometimes caring there are so many other things though, and I used to be picked on when I was in elementary, I've lost many friend because of stupid reasons, and well I don't know I have a job, but I know that I'm not happy with my life and the way it is right now. I was also raped. That's me, Natalie.

Answer 4

students who keep skipping lessons
watching TV when he's suppose to be studying
Talking on the phone when you're in a noisy place
Students who doesn't like anything
A brother who doesn't show any concerns
unteacheable people/ unwilling to learn
Accused of things you didn't do.
waiting for than an hour for someone to arrived.

Answer 5

I broke my back about 1 month ago and it has made me more humble in life and appreciate that I am still able to interact with my family unlike the unfortunate people who have severed their spinal cords.

Answer 6

Cheap vodka.