my bf and i are great and working things out just like any other couple. today, more like last night, him and i played some tennis and spent quality time with each other since school is taking over our lives and any chance we get to spend with the other is good. any way, my bf asked one of his best friend who lives in the same town where my bf and i go to school-university- to come and play tennis and they both agreed upon the time and such. a while into the tennis game my bf tells me that maybe we should call it a night since he had a muscle cramp from working out. i agreed, then i asked him if he was still going to meet up with his friend yet he tells me that he will not wait another hour for his friend which surprised me because my bf is not the type of guy to ditch his buddies out for no reason! that was odd..well, anyway then he turned down my offer to have dinner with me but said that we will have it today, and he did not pick up the phone nor returned my call on his cell. help!
2007-01-10 19:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for some reason i feel that he is not telling me something or making excuses. i mean i know that he just came from work to hang out with me but he does that all the time yet he never ditches anyone or turns down their offer on dinner. i do not want to tell him that i think that he is up to somethin though. plus he was on AIM yet he did not chat with me and it made me even more mad. i mean, one sec he is the sweetes guy and the next sec i am confused. all answers are welcome
2007-01-10 19:09:13 · update #1
plus his buddy is already married by the way
2007-01-10 19:18:10 · update #2
If i were you i would stop being paranoid and just live life as it is.----------------------------if it aint broke, dont fix it.-------------------------
2007-01-10 19:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted some time alone with the guys but didnt wanna hurt your feelings. It doesnt mean he did anything wrong, it could just mean that he loves you so much he never wants you to doubt or worry, He may not have done the right thing if this is what happened, but be easy on him. Get the facts before jumping to conclusions. I would let it go, then a few weeks from now say so where did you and ___ go to? Act like he had told you before and you forgot or say so when will you see him again....always trick them, lies are only good as they are remembered. If you let it go awhile he will forget what he said to you about it and is the best time to throw in a suprise question at him and get a truthful answer.
2007-01-11 03:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really see any kind of serious problem here. Don't be to quick to judge why he didn't call. The only thing I would wonder is if he's okay. If he turned down two invites to do things, maybe he isn't feeling well but doesn't want to say why? I don't know all the details, but thats what I wonder. If I were you, I would wait until tomorrow and call him again.
2007-01-11 03:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe yor not really his type.Why buy the milk when the cows for free?Are you "really" in of his league? Maybe he realises
Theres no way to be serious after all.Boys are like that however
cruel.Girls want to escape and take things serious.Girls should thought of that before they"gave in" to the "idea and glitter..
He played you now he's playing your friend.And worst your most
likely locker room cfodder ...for him and his friends.Your reationship sounds like like a 18 minus ....Like teens ....
Your new culture needs help.I knew this would happen.
2007-01-11 03:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by All Peaches an cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not even need to read the rest of your question to tell you that you need to move on. He does not appreciate you like he should. There is no reason that you should deal with anything like that. If he really loved you, he would never treat you like that. I could never imagne my husbad and we are young, doing anything like that to me. Hell, he still opens the car doors for me. Find someone that will do that for you and then settle. Don't settle with less then.
2007-01-11 03:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's had a change of heart and I may be sus here but maybe he was trying to palm you off onto his mate. Reason I say that, years ago, I got rid of an unwelcome gf by introducing her to a mate!
2007-01-11 03:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may have had other plans, or he did meet another friend and he did not want you to know this. It could be something else entirely, but it sounds mysterious to me. I think I would wait for him to call me unless I just had to call again and could not stop myself.
2007-01-11 03:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you named yourself Icy he's probally looking for something warm.
2007-01-11 03:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its either time to follow him cause it sounds like something is up or get a new BF!!!!! sounds a little fishy to me
2007-01-11 03:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋