I want to know if i will ever get married? If i am with my soul mate? I need to know that everything i am doing is right. I lost a clse friend to last year who was very sick, is he with me?
2007-01-10 17:51:32 · 18 answers · asked by foxtail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How are we supposed to know? We aren't God.
2007-01-10 17:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Will you ever get married? Sure, if you want to get married, you can get married. Staying married is the hard part. Are you with your soul mate? Well, considering that soul mates don't actually exist and it's just some made up romantic cliche, yes, you are with your soul mate if you want this person to be your soul mate. No, not everything you are doing is right. That would be impossible. Look at the world today. Nope, very few people are doing anything right and living the life of 'supposed to's' (supposed to get married, supposed have children ect) is not always right. You're friend that you lost is dead. He is not with you because he is dead. This is why people say he has 'passed on' or 'he is no longer with us' or 'he is dead and his body is rotting away somewhere being eaten by worms'.
You sound really insecure like good bait for a cult or a major religion. I suggest you get some counselling before you end up a Scientologist or a Catholic. Good luck!
2007-01-10 18:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you will get married some day when you find the right person. Only you know if the person you are with is your soul mate. What have you been up to lately ? Do you think it is right ?I am sorry to hear of your loss, but if your friend was very sick at least he is at peace now. If he was a very close friend and you think of him often, he will always be with you. He will be watching over you and trying to steer you in the right direction. Hope this has helped. Best of luck in the future.
2007-01-10 18:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the answer to your questions. I will just tell you how it is and not lie to you.
You will get married but you will be a friend to the person first and it will not be important to you to get married to the person because you are such good friends. You will marry later in the relationship. It is called a soul mate and you will be one of the few rare people that find one. You will meet your soul mate when you are giving your time to do something for others.
The person is NOT with you. He is gone.
Life is short. Enjoy it. Enjoy the people around you. If you love someone then tell them every chance you get.
Questions Answered.
2007-01-10 17:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by CTM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if you'll get married or not. That's a personal choice. But don't get married just because you feel desparate. I'm assuming your female, so i'm gonna say that increasingly, women are becoming more independent and less of them are getting married because they are less reliant on "men".
I don't believe in soulmate. I don't think there is one right person for each person. I think it's a matter of accepting someone and loving them for who they are and looking beyond their flaws that leads to the "soulmate" if you wanna call it that. In the eyes of one person, someone may be incomplete, but in the eyes of another, that person may be perfect.
Love, accept, and cherish.
I don't know what you are doing with your life, but i hope you are on the right track. Trust yourself, whenever in doubt, take a step back and reevaluate the situtation.
As for your friend, people come, and people go. It's tough to lose a close friend, but you've got to learn to accept the unexpected and the unbearable. I'm sure he is waiting to meet with you again someday.
2007-01-10 18:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your friend- yes, he will always be with you for as long as you need him to be. (I know this because my husband was murdered 15 years ago and I still talk to him every day - or at least feel as if I could - I just have to listen really closely. No, I'm not crazy!)
As for your current relationship, YOU know! Listen to your inner voice! Deep down, YOU know - or you wouldn't have had to ask it "out loud," so to speak, by asking it here! If your current mate is causing you to have the slightest negative (gut) feeling, then YOU KNOW what to do. You've got to trust yourself - only YOU can tell you if what you're doing is right - only YOU really know YOU! None of us can nor should!
"Everything happens for a reason and as it should."
2007-01-10 18:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I called Dion Warwick at the psychic friends hotline and she said to stop worrying about the future and the past and get on with the present.
2007-01-10 17:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you know the anwers to these questions do you want to get married are you with your life mate and yes i belive that our friends and family r always with us
2007-01-10 17:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by c.c. c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very confused & insecured. Try to see things with clarity & logic. Noone can predict anything for sure. Don't fall in the trap.
2007-01-10 17:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
will you find a sould mate ...maybe i'm 34 and i thought i found my soul mate 10 years ago but i guess i wasn't hers....never know ..if you think of your friend everyday then yes ...he is with you!
2007-01-10 17:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by zzbudzz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO...YOU'RE GOING IN THE LEFT DIRECTION,NOT THE RIGHT!!!
on to your ?'s: 1.maybe,2I don't know,3sometimes,people do things wrong,we all hafta get over it,4 no, they don't come back,your friend is at peace now,time to let go!
2007-01-10 17:59:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋