Its not in my nature to communicate or request things. Or ask a favour ....or tell exisitng problems to others. I avoid problems and difficult situations........as sometimes people take advantage of my nature....why it is so difficult for me to make friendship with people and get along them ......
2007-01-10 17:36:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
You don't have to share private things with people. You can enjoy their company and converse with them though. It's really up to you what you want to share. Privacy is a good thing. It's something you value. As for problems, well it's just a natural part of life. Sometimes people need support while they are going through them. Unfortunately life has some difficult situations as well. You don't have to be afraid of them, you just deal with them as they come along. If it's something you can't deal with it's OK to step back. If it feels uncomfortable to you it's even OK to let a person know that you aren't comfortable with a given situation and they should be respectful of that. It's all living and sharing. But the "sharing" part is up to you. The more you share of yourself (not the private things) the more others want to share with you. You kind of have to step out a little and give people a chance. The beautiful thing is you get to chose whom you want to be friends with. Perhaps your a little shy. That can be harder for you but not impossible. I don't know if I answered your question well, but I do wish you the best.
2007-01-10 17:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind to accept others as they are and remind yourself that they are doing the best they can for what they know. Start by listening more and taking a genuine interest in others. With practice you will slowly discover that you can learn something from everyone; from the wino in the street to an annoying boss. It's like seeing a beauty in everything underneath the cover of ugliness. Set small boundaries. No is always an option and can be pleasantly put. Be the people that you want to attract.
2007-01-11 01:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social interaction enhances positive attitudes civil experience public awareness , circles of contacts , leadership potentials , provides opportunities to serve the greater cause of Humanity . Social skilll is critical area that equips to deal with unforeseen challenges and crises that appear without any prior sign.
The great leaders are all hugely adored communicators. If individual wisdom, higher thinking and constructive ideas had not been disseminated ,through effective, influential and persuasive
skills the world would not progress the way it did.It does not mean clever or wicked fire brands should be left free to fool the soft spoken and self-respected ones.
2007-01-11 08:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear is a common pattern for all of us. We are born traumatized
and deal with fear the rest of our lives. Fear can be dealt with by intention, yoga, finding a few people you can let in on all your thoughts and most important you can trust. We are all mirrors for eachother to make us learn the lessons we need to learn in this lifetime.
According to the Ayurveda you have to take responsability towards your life in three ways.
1. Spiritually find a belief system which your are comfortable with and inspired by.
2. Mentally, find way to make yourself at peace.
3. Your body needs to nurtured and be taken care of in a way it will serve you. So avoid the bad stuff.
If you do not take the responsability you will victim to diseases.
Each emotional pattern is related to its own disease.
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Good luck my friend
2007-01-11 04:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by franslaimbock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely difficult to have a friendship if you don't share a little of yourself in the process.
You need to take some risks and allow people to know you.
Sometimes you win; sometimes you lose.--- that is just life.
2007-01-11 02:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear xyz643,
When I read ur questions, I felt myself in the same situation. Your basic problem is that u have lack of confidence in urself.U dont discuss problems with others because u dont feel secure in anyothers solutions to ur problem. According to my reading u must be dat kind of person who dn't have public relations much in ur circle..Or may be u dont have the circle. My suggestion would be dat u shud discuss things with ur close ones..Dont discuss ur problem at the first time. Only discuss general things which are related to common people. Or any news topic.which u feel interesting.(Movie, songs, politics....) Just get to know their views. When u find right person to tell everything u have in ur heart. Den tell them slowly.I think by doing this,may ur problem will be solved.."Just have one feeling in urself Love everyone whether dat person avoids u or luvs u. dont hate anyone in ur life"..
2007-01-14 04:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by GEETIKA K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are introvert.Try sharing healthy jokes with others. You will win friends.You are basically good.
2007-01-11 02:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by madhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because you think like this.kindly reverse your thinking pattern or stop thinking at all ; while communicating with others.
2007-01-11 10:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋