Is it still possible to have an abortion on the 4th-5th month of pregnancy?

Question

I am about 4months pregnant but it´s still not visible, i mean people around me doesn´t know about it and they can´t notice it...
I´m keeping it a secret because my boyfriend can not stand for it... I really want to terminate the baby because i have tried a lot of ways to abort it and i think the baby is not healthy anymore, i don´t want to have a defected child.

Answer 1

I hope it is not possible and you need to stop doing things before you kill yourself in the process too.

Answer 2

No. It is illeagel to have and abortion in the second trimester. You need to see a doctor regardless. The doctor can tell you if there's anything wrong with the baby and yourself. You need to consider seeing a counselor before you do something number 1 you'll regret and number 2 that could seriously hurt/damage/kill you. If you continue this way you are liable to make it so you can never have children! Your boyfriend may be more open to it than you think and if not maybe you two should have been more careful. Remember that for next time!

Answer 3

Fortunately, your womb is designed to protect your child and most likely that is what it has done. Please go to a crisis pregnancy center as soon as possible. All of their services are free and confidential, and they can arrange for you to receive an ultrasound to check on your baby. You can find one in your area by calling 1-800-395-HELP or visiting: http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

You can't change what you did in the past, but you CAN do the best you can for your baby now and start protecting him or her. Your baby hasn't done anything wrong. Please stop punishing him or her and get yourself and the baby some good medical care. Again, they can help you with this at the crisis pregnancy center.

Your baby is just like a newborn infant now, only smaller. Here are some photos of what your baby looks like:

http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

I know you are anxious, but you need to resolve to protect your baby from now on. Get an ultrasound and you will feel better. Your boyfriend will just have to stand for it. You don't need to feel sorry for him. He made the choice to have sex with you, knowing that a baby could result.

Be strong and do right.

Answer 4

You don't want to have a "defected child"????? If this is the case, it's YOUR fault that the baby has been injured or harmed. That's a very cold and uncaring statement and if your child is born with defects, I hope you are prosecuted!

If you were mature enough to have sex, you should have been mature enough to have protected sex!!

It's time for you to start acting like a mature adult and face your responsibilities as a parent and as a human being. If you don't want to care for this child, look into adoption. There are people out there who will love and care for this child in spite of the damages you may have caused.

Answer 5

And, you tried to self abort *WHY*?

Wouldn't it have been easier to see a doctor? Although I don't condone abortions out of convenience, you could have hurt yourself BAD by trying to abort it yourself.

First, you need to see a doctor. You may not have done any harm to the fetus at all, but only a doc can tell you this by doing an ultrasound.

I don't know what state that you're in, but sometimes, it's still legal to kill your unborn child up until 24 weeks. Just know that's what you're doing. You're KILLING an unborn child, because your BOYFRIEND doesn't want to deal with your pregnancy.

Talk to your doctor. This is disgusting.

Answer 6

You should've thought about the consequences before you brought an innocent life into the picture. Now grow up and be the parent you made yourself to be. You are already committing child abuse to this innocent child. If something is wrong with the child due to your stupidity then that's what you get. The child deserves love and respect it's still a human being with a beating heart. You are a vile disgusting pathetic worthless person. Repent for your sins committed against this innocent child. Your mother gave you life !!!!!! Equality is demanded.

Answer 7

Sorry to say, but no doctor wil terminate a baby at 4 months of pregnancy. Unless like you said there is something wrong with it. PLEASE go and see a doctor as soon as possible. They will be able to tell you what can en d can't be done.

Good luck and I really wish you all the best of luck.

Answer 8

this is sick if you didn't want the baby why leave it so long to get an abortion?
as for trying to " get rid " yourself you could have seriously hurt the unborn baby which is just cruel!!!
if the baby has suffered birth defects i think you should bring it up after all sounds like you may have done the damage

Answer 9

You are in trouble now sweetie. I am pro choice but it is a little late now. You should have taken care of it when you first found out. Have you seen a doctor? Go to Planned Parenthood tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They will help you know what to do.


Sweetie you must ignore all the pro life crap. Those people are evil and do not care what you are feeling or experiencing.

Answer 10

I hope you get caught. Its called child abuse. You cant abort the baby now its too late. I hope your boyfriend beats you for trying to hurt his baby. You dont deserve children after this is over get yourself fixed. Your nothing but a filthy animal.

Answer 11

you can get an abortion up to 24 weeks........ go look at this website it will give you info about what type abortion you can get for how ever far along you are.

if you cant get the abortion you really need to go to the dr. not only for the baby but for your sake too......

by the way its called a 2nd trimester abortion.....