She says that she has always been that way ( shes 31) and i belive shes telling the truth. What can i do to help her get in the mood on HER OWN, really want to have sex? She is just never horny at all. She doesnt have a problem having an orgasam(ralely has 2-says that she has been like that also) or anything she just never acts like she wants to have sex. I have tried alot of different things to make her feel sexy and desired but nothing helps. She says that its not me and that im not the problem, we have talked about this a few times and it gets us nowhere. we have been togeather for 2 1/2 years now and i dont know if i can be in this rut of a sex life with no fun too much longer. Any help would be nice, thanks.
2007-01-10 17:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by Fergy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There are over the counter meds that are supposed to increase the female sex drive. They could work. There have also been studies that show Viagra seems to increase the libido in women as well. She should see her doctor.
2007-01-10 17:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is all about meeting in the middle. If you're not willing to budge and she's not willing to budge then it may be time to move on. People might get mad at me for this one but:
Some say that sex isn't everything. I will agree but I WILL say it's pretty darn important. Sex (or the lack thereof) is a main cause of relationship problems. If the two of you aren't sexually compatible it's going to put a strain on things.
If you've talked to her a few times and nothing has changed it may be time to re-think things. I'm sure you don't want to spend the rest of your life begging for sex and I'm sure your significant other doesn't want to hear it.....it opens the door for cheating and other things.....
So, if you've tried and tried and nothing works.... maybe you should move on....
2007-01-10 17:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Calvin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you should stick with the relationship. I have had the same thing and believe her when she says that it isn't you! Have you tried doing things together...eg. Going on a "date", maybe the relationship has gotten too "comfortable". Try doing something different you never know you may get lucky. Good luck!
2007-01-10 17:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, now. she'll only get worse.
2007-01-10 17:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by DredPir8Roberts 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she's just not into you
2007-01-10 17:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness #1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋