I've become interested in a female, she is married and wants a gf to join their couple. It wouldn't be an all the time thing since she lives a few hours away, but would still be a gf/gf relationship. Just wondering everyone's thoughts. If you can't tell, I'm bi female!
2007-01-10 16:38:28 · 7 answers · asked by spotted_moofers 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Joel:
Watching your woman get it from another guy is HOTTT!!! Especially getting the "sloppy seconds"... Squishy! Very sexy.
Now - the original question:
Is her husband OK with it?
Will you do them both?
Rules need to be established in a polyamory or swinging relstionship. Make sure everyone is OK with the ground rules, and then go have fun!
Blessed be,
Michael.
2007-01-10 20:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everybody agrees than what the heck, go for it.
A word of caution though. I have known a few couples that did the swinging thing and when the guy saw his wife getting it on with another man, it was never the same for them and they ended up divorcing.
Another friend of mine watched his girlfriend with another girl and I guess his gf got really excited and really into it with this other girl and nothing like with him and they ended up breaking up.
Swinging is not for everybody. It takes a very strong relationship to do it and most people do not have the emotional maturity to handle it, so be careful. If their marriage ends, she may blame you and come after you or he may come after you.
Just a thought, but other wise, if everybody is ok with it, why deny yourself of some pleasure.
2007-01-11 00:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually with a polygamous couple, there's someone who wants that and someone else who is just "ok" with it. After they make it a triad, the person who was ok, suddenly isn't. It gets very messy. You sure you want THAT kind of baggage? And if you are ok with it, I would say you need some professional help that you are willing to be "the sloppy seconds".
2007-01-11 00:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married.... I think you would get hurt. So I say let the married couple stay together and you should find someone who is not with a legal relationship
2007-01-11 00:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i cant really answer ur question coz am not into sex without love and if i love someone then she won't be married and she won't accept her husband to share her me
2007-01-11 01:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not my cup of tea.
2007-01-11 00:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dangerous
2007-01-11 00:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋